Real Love Coaches and Wise Men
Real Love is so much more than a principle. It’s a power and a feeling that heals and transforms lives and relationships in ways you can scarcely imagine. No exaggeration. Learning the principles of Real Love is important, but the true healing comes from feeling loved by real people. Where can we find them?
There are many people who are capable of loving you unconditionally, to varying degrees of effectiveness. We refer to people who can love you as wise men and women. As defined in Real Love for Wise Men and Women, “A wise man is anyone who feels loved and loving enough in a given moment that he or she can accept and love another person—and you can learn to do that.” Many of us can function as wise men and women with the people around us.
A coach is a wise man who has demonstrated an additional ability to be loving and discerning consistently enough that we can trust him or her to guide us even more reliably than most wise men in the process of identifying our emptiness, our fears, and our unloving behaviors. A coach will also tend to step beyond just helping us see our problems and accepting us. A coach will additionally make recommendations to us about what we might do to correct our perceptions and behaviors. Coaches will help us see what to do next. They will advise. Learn more about coaching here.
While you might make contact with many wise men and women to receive their unconditional love, you would tend to have only one coach. Guidance from more than one coach would tend to become confusing, just as a sports team would be confused by directions from more than one head coach. Without a coordinating and guiding coach, often, unintentionally, people will call around looking for agreement rather than direction, and will find people to support their victimhood.
Anyone can be a wise man or woman—anyone capable of being unconditionally loving—but to make the process of finding one more effective, we offer a list of people designated as Certified Wise Men. You will find them listed here: Certified Wise Man List. The email addresses are not written in the conventional manner so that their email is protected from e-mail harvesters. Simply copy the email and change the (at) to "@" and the (dot) to a "."
Anyone can claim to be a coach, but some people have met a standard of excellence beyond that of a Certified Wise Man. These people are capable of providing love and guidance on a professional level, as determined by the founders of The Real Love Company. They are Certified Real Love Coaches (CRLC). Sometimes, people who were once certified lose the expertise they had and are no longer certified. How can you know if a coach is currently Certified?
1. You can find a full list of CRLCs here: Certified Real Love Coaches.
2. You can schedule time with a CRLC HERE. This is the best way to SCHEDULE formal coaching time with a CRLC.
You might notice that not all Certified Real Love Coaches listed below are also available for paid, scheduled coaching. Some Coaches prefer not to charge for their time, and they also prefer not to be as available as coaches who schedule coaching calls with people. You can discover this by contacting them. Most CRLCs—but not all—are paid only if they’re on this drop-down list.
In order to be happy, all we need is one person to love us unconditionally. This changes the world for us. This love dispels the lies that we are not worthwhile and it gives us hope. It is possible to get this love from any wise man, but in my experience the people who make the greatest and fastest progress are those who have a coach. Trusting a coach is a big step forward toward the goal of trusting in the power of Real Love.