Stop It!! - Real Love Blog
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Stop It!!

A married couple, Jack and Amy, were telling me how unhappy they were. Amy was an attacker who angrily criticized people—especially Jack and her children—from the time she opened her eyes in the morning until she fell asleep at night. She…
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Real Love–Better Yield, Less Effort

Martin called me and said, "My wife, Cynthia, is all gaga over this Real Love stuff, and she wants me to get involved with her. But we've already done marriage counseling, read books, done retreats. None of it made any difference. Why try again?" I…
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Anger Or Love?

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Controlling Nothing

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Climbing The Eiger - Real Love Blog

Climbing the Eiger

In Switzerland there's a mountain called The Eiger, which rises more than 13,000 feet above sea level. It's a popular mountain for climbers, but it's also quite dangerous, having claimed dozens of lives over the years. One of the dangers of…


"It is sometimes an appropriate response to reality to go insane." (Philip K. Dick) We did not make up our pain. It was done to us early in life, and our insanity naturally followed. But now we can do something about all of that. Finally,…

Proven Truth

Here's a list of 5 Truths you can save as your screensaver or print out to carry with you as a reminder of what is really true:
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There are many people who keep expanding the drama in their lives until you find yourself onstage in their crazy play. You do not have to accept the invitation to play a part. Choose to stay in the audience, or—often better—to calmly walk…
Waiting To Recharge - Real Love Blog

Waiting To Recharge

I have a Kindle, an electronic device that allows me to read a whole library of books that have been downloaded to its memory. In the upper right-hand corner of the screen is a power indicator, informing me how much of the full electric charge…

Make Mistakes Faster

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Tossing Wheat In The Air - Real Love Blog
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Tossing Wheat In The Air

As people come to me with their personal and relationship problems, one of the most recurring themes I hear is the desire to get more love from a particular person or group of people: "My husband never wants to spend time with me." "I really…


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Knowledge vs. Ability

Louis called me and said, "I just can't believe I keep doing this." "Doing what?" I asked. "I've read the marriage book. I've read several of the other Real Love books too, and I've been working at this for months now, but I keep getting…


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Facing Opposition

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There's No Single Recipe For Life - Real Love Blog
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There's No Single Recipe For Life

When I was a kid, nobody talked much about cooking. You just boiled, baked, fried, or peeled it, and then you ate it. But then Julia Child and others made cooking look fun, and a profusion of books and articles followed, along with an occasional…

Right Direction

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The Truth

Remember what is really true by printing out this list of 5 Truths and carrying it with you (or pin it on Pinterest for easy reference when you need a reminder).
Half An Inch Of Mud - Real Love Blog

Half An Inch Of Mud

A couple of weeks ago I was cutting firewood from trees that had been knocked down by a recent tornado. The trees were only a short distance off the road—maybe a hundred yards—so I drove my friend's large truck into the clearing where we…
Watering The Fish - Real Love Blog

Watering The Fish

Joel came to me and said that his business was failing, his marriage was shaky, and the relationship with his children was strained. He was twisted in knots. "You're not seeing the central problem," I said. "Which is?" he asked. "You're…