The Only Person You Can Change is You (Video Clip)

What can you do when a family member is unable to love you? Watch this video clip from a seminar and learn how to find peace with this situation. There can be peace and happiness in your life when you realize…

What are You Really Responsible For?

In order to be happy, we have to accomplish three conditions: We must feel loved. We must be loving. We must be responsible. If we diligently attend to these three goals, we WILL be happy. It's predictable. It's guaranteed. For now, I'll…

Half the Roots

One day I was kayaking down the creek behind our house, headed in the direction of the Coosa River. As I rounded a bend in the creek, I slowed down to take in a curious sight. There on the left bank was an oak tree about 80-90 feet high and…

What If My Partner Refuses to Practice Real Love? (Video Clip)

In some relationships, only one partner chooses to practice Real Love. On many occasions, that can still work—depending on the Key.
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Just Reach Out

Reach out and connect with others who are learning to find and feel Real Love—here:

The Power of No

I was in the room with Pam when she read an email from her sister, Suzanne, who had been quite critical—even bitter—toward Pam. Briefly, Pam furrowed her brow as she read the negative words out loud, but then she waived her hand in a dismissive—but…
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The Greatest Gift

Watch The Essentials of Real Love DVDs and follow along with the exercises in the accompanying Workbook to learn how to find and share the greatest gift possible—Real Love. "I've read all the books and heard all the great speakers, but…

Only Compassion

Discover "The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships" by reading or listening to Real Love. "I honestly can't think of a human being on the planet that ought not read this book ASAP! It's that good and much needed…

How Do You Tell People About Real Love?

If you'd like help practicing talking about Real Love with others just like you, join in on a Free Real Love Conference Call here:

It Would Be Nice

Sarah and Paul had been in a relationship on and off for years. They were making a new attempt with the assistance of Real Love. Sarah spent one Saturday with Paul, and toward the end of the day, Paul asked her if she’d like to spend the…

The Brush Of Heaven

Or we can believe that all the world is no more than an extension of the mosquito bite we’re presently scratching. Transform your life, relationships, and the way you see the world by reading or listening to Real Love today:
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There are many people who keep expanding the drama in their lives until you find yourself onstage in their crazy play. You do not have to accept the invitation to play a part. Choose to stay in the audience, or—often better—to calmly walk…
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Why Partnerships Fail

We find partners in the hope that they will heal our wounds and make us happy. But they are not equipped to do that, and when we discover this—which we refused to see from the beginning—our partnerships fail. Learn how to have the unconditionally…
A Poke In The Eye - Real Love Blog
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A Poke In The Eye

Dan was irritated that Cheryl was "constantly" offering him advice about a great many things. "But I'm just trying to help," Cheryl said. "He's always doing stuff, or making decisions, without all the information he needs, and I'm just trying…
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Without Sufficient Real Love

Watching two people without sufficient Real Love as they interact in a relationship is like watching two ticks trying to suck blood from each other. Find Real Love for yourself and learn how to have the fulfilling relationships you've always…

The Cost of Conflict and Greed

Just this morning I read that Bank of America lost nearly $300 million for the first quarter of 2014 because their LEGAL expenses alone were more than $6 BILLION. Nearly six years ago there was a terrible financial crisis that resulted from—according…

The Broken Leg

The other day I got a call from a woman, Shelley, who described her relationship with a man she was living with, a man who alternated between being emotionally abusive and emotionally cold and withdrawn. She responded with all the Getting and…