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Pearl Fryar

Only Love Destroys Hate

In 1976, as documented in a movie starring himself, a man named Pearl moved to Bishopville, South Carolina, where old concepts of bigotry and segregation were quite alive. He and his wife bought a house in an all-white neighborhood, where…
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What to Do with a Difficult Child (Video Clip)

What can you do with a difficult child? Start looking inward. https://youtu.be/19RUeyIZgFo Listen to Real Love in Parenting and learn how to raise happy, responsible and loving children.
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Just Keep Loving Them (Video Clip)

Do you wish you could hear more from your kids? Just keep loving them. Watch this:   https://youtu.be/-evab50j31M Listen to Real Love in Parenting and get more insights into how to have a loving relationship with your children,…
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Unloving Moments

A coach suggested that we collect some of the UNloving things that people say, especially the ones that the speaker would not recognize as unloving. "I hate you" is universally recognized as unloving, but we have so many subtle—and therefore…
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Raising a Fearless Child (Video Clip)

A child raised with Real Love is fearless. https://youtu.be/6AeXBlVJnAY
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Practice Imperfection and “Un-scare” Our Kids (Video Clip)

Teach your children that being imperfect is just fine. https://youtu.be/30PMw1nQmMY
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The Need for the Death of Compliments (Video Clip)

Complimenting a child increases his anxiety, not his self-worth. https://youtu.be/2I971lx482w Learn how to talk to a child without praise and watch his confidence and love of life grow. Listen to Real Love in Parenting.  
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Alternative to Compliments and Praise (Video clip)

Let a child simply share their enjoyment of a task or subject with you rather than praising them. They will grow in confidence instead of feeling assessed...again. https://youtu.be/HWR3iHNGOi4
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The Dangers of Praise (Video Clip)

Children will confuse praise with what makes them lovable, often times with disastrous results. "I love you" is what they really need to hear. https://youtu.be/pT3x1t1jqPU
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How to Engage Kids in Activities (Video Clip)

When you are the Parent, have a plan. You are the Cruise Director. https://youtu.be/zIx-MpjKNGs  
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Bedtime: Make it Fun! (Video clip)

For anyone caring for children, bedtime doesn’t have to be a struggle. Watch this video clip. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NaZ8xVn-Lso
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Teach Kids the Fundamentals of Real Love (Video Clip)

Once your children have experienced the “chocolate cake” of Real Love, they won’t want anything else. https://youtu.be/Mv1ke9WFNqw
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Parenting Requires Being Confident with Who You Are (Video Clip)

You need to know who you are down to your core so that you won’t be filled with fear at the comments your children make. https://youtu.be/pDjRNraUZJY
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Parents and Power (Video Clip)

A child's behavior is powerfully impacted by the parent's use of Power. https://youtu.be/lxwRQpBOm64
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Being Loved and Taught Changes Everything (Video Clip)

Having trouble with your children? LovingAndTeaching (one word), and calmly applying consequences when needed changes everything. https://youtu.be/VdXZo895xaQ
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How to Have Family Meetings with Wide Age Range (Video Clip)

It can be quite a challenge to have family meetings where the age range of the children is large. But it can be done well, with these tips. https://youtu.be/B4QuOiK_KAc
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How Do You Decide Whether to Divorce? (Video Clip)

Divorce is an unbelievably heavy decision. What criteria can we use to know whether to do it? https://youtu.be/2FGnFpbOnsw
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Children Need Love Like Air—from Birth (Video Clip)

If we don't get Real Love from a very early age, we spend the rest of our lives screaming for it–in a wide variety of ways. https://youtu.be/M_Djvjk2RZE
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Kids Respond Beautifully to Real Love (Video Clip)

When we consistently apply Real Love to children’s lives, we give them order and predictability—like gravity. https://youtu.be/xwf8CwmMttE
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A Real Love Merry Christmas Message From An Adorable Teenager

A Merry Christmas message from an adorable teenager who is expressing her miraculous heart and feelings about Real Love. https://youtu.be/Gto6PoJTNME
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A Real Love Merry Christmas Message From An Adorable Teenager

A Merry Christmas message from an adorable teenager who is expressing her miraculous heart and feelings about Real Love. https://youtu.be/Gto6PoJTNME