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Truth and Love

What you want most is Real Love. But before you can believe that people actively care about your happiness, you need to know that they accept you. You can't know that people accept you as you really are unless you know that they see who you…
What does real love look like?

What Does Real Love Look Like?

As a principle alone, Real Love is transformational. As I have taught the definition and nature of Real Love to people all around the world, I have been impressed with how they have lit up with understanding. As they have realized the role of…
Recognizing Real Love

What Is Real Love?

Learn how to recognize Real Love. Watch as Greg answers "What Is Real Love?" from his Top Ten Questions on YouTube and transform YOUR life today.  
Genuine Happiness requires faith and courage

Real Love Has Made My Life Worse

Mark had read the book Real Love and attended several Real Love groups. He called me and said, "Real Love has ruined my life." "How so?" I asked. "I feel worse about myself, and my marriage is worse than ever." After asking a few questions,…

Fatal Distractions

"It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." (Matthew 19:24) Often the distractions of Imitation Love—the “riches” of the world—are truly fatal. Don't be fooled by…

Through The Eyes Of Love

“Many eyes go through the meadow, but few see the flowers in it.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson) With love, all the world is filled with flowers; without it, the landscape is bleak and the burden unbearable. Find Real Love and start experiencing…

It’s Important to Know What Real Love is Not (Video Clip)

In the process of understanding what Real Love is, it can help a lot to know what it is NOT.

Truth and Love Give Us Choices

Once a boulder begins rolling down a steep hill, it’s not CHOOSING to fall. It’s just reacting, and that’s exactly how most of us live. The TRUTH and love make the ground level and give us choices.

There is No Calculus

One day I was talking to an electrical engineer, and he was disputing the existence of unconditional love. “Impossible,” he said. “Nobody can love unconditionally.” “Have you ever FELT loved unconditionally?” I asked. “No,…

Without Love

No matter how smart, clever, and productive you are, without love you become like a brilliantly designed race car without any fuel in the tank.
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What is Real Love? (Video Clip)

Would you like a simple, clear definition of Real Love for yourself and that you can share with others?

To Most of Us, Real Love is a Foreign Language (Video Clip)

When your partner is having difficulty with your implementing Real Love in your relationship, understand that to other people Real Love is a foreign language.

What’s the Difference between Traditional Therapy and Real Love Coaching?

I talk to people every day who are exploring Real Love for the first time, and many of them have been treated with a long line of traditional—and non-traditional—therapeutic modalities. Understandably, they ask me to explain the difference…

Sucking Air

Roman Coombes sent me the following metaphor, which I have modified without his permission. Take two drinking straws. One is your Imitation Love conduit, and the other is for Real Love. Put some water in a glass. Place the Imitation Love…

A Child’s View

Watch a 4- and 7-year old who have been taught the difference between Real Love and Imitation Love by their father.  

Why Should I Read the Real Love Book? (Video Clip)

Reading the Real Love books won’t make you feel loved, but it will answer so many of your questions about life.

Boredom and Apathy

A man wrote: “You once described boredom to me as 'emptiness without a purpose,' which meant nothing to me at the time but does now. I haven't felt bored for a long, long time.” In the absence of sufficient Real Love, we fill our emptiness…

No Such Things as Germs

Prior to the mid-1800s people routinely died from infections at a rate that today we can scarcely imagine. Infections contributed to a life expectancy of about 40 years in 1800, compared to roughly 78 now in developed countries. In the United…

Real Love Makes All the Difference

Having difficulty with your marriage or child? Never, never give up until you’ve tried the one thing—Real Love—that makes all the difference.

The Flavor of Real Love

The flavor of Real Love is so sweet and fulfilling that the taste of selfishness becomes disgusting and unthinkable.

Who's Your Friend?

Who’s your friend? Put your dog and your spouse in the trunk of your car for an hour. When you open the trunk, which one is happy to see you?