Lies Of A Lifetime

Discard the lies of your past and start living the happy, fulfilling life you deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "So many psychotherapists don't understand the lasting effects of childhood on the happiness…
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"I'm So Fat!"

Corinne said to me, "I'm disgusted with my life." "Really?" I said. "Name a specific thing you're disgusted about." "I'm so fat!" "So rather than argue about whether you really are fat—which is debatable—let's just accept what you…

You Are Not Garbage

Jerry had been studying Real Love for several months and practicing the principles with his wife, Marge. "I just keep screwing it up," Jerry said. "I know the right thing to do, but when Marge starts in with criticizing me, it's like I go…

Old Patterns

Free yourself from old patterns of beliefs and the wounds you've been carrying around since childhood by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder here:
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You Are So Mean

Stephanie called me to say that her 14-year-old daughter, Lee Ann, was out of control: angry, sexually promiscuous, having problems in school, and more. Questions revealed that Stephanie had felt unloved all her life, and she had reacted to…
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Do You Hear What I Hear?

One night as I was talking in my driveway with a friend from New York City, he said, "What is that sound? I can hardly hear myself think." I had no idea what he was talking about. "What sound?" I asked. As he described the noise, I realized…

Fatal Distraction

"You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in your past." Liz Hale, Ph.D. Heal your past now by reading Real Love and PCSD here:
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Personal Space

Many people are fond of talking about their "personal space," usually the same people who fervently protect their "boundaries." While I don't advocate that we frighten people with our physical proximity, I have learned that what we all want…


With Real Love, you can live the joyful, fulfilling life you've always wanted. Start here by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter…

Still Owns You

Stop running and learn how you can feel peaceful and loved all the time, by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened…
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Fix The Foundation

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Healing Balm Of Love

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A Crystal Ball

Ten years ago I began to regularly visit Brenda, a widow. Of her six adult children, five would have nothing to do with her—one of whom was in prison for trying to kill her—and one, Audrey, spoke to her only when she wanted money to buy…


"It is sometimes an appropriate response to reality to go insane." (Philip K. Dick) We did not make up our pain. It was done to us early in life, and our insanity naturally followed. But now we can do something about all of that. Finally,…
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The Wounds of "Love"

Years ago I talked with Kristine, who told me that one of her two sons was using drugs and was in trouble with the law, while her daughter was in a terrible relationship. She had also recently divorced her husband, who had numerous affairs.…

Facing Opposition

You CAN heal the pain of the past and grow your new, stronger feathers and start living the joyous life you deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD here:

Who We Really Are

When we look in the mirror, only rarely do we see who we really are. Instead we see our accumulated responses to pain, which cover up who we really are. Free yourself from the pain of the past and uncover the REAL you by reading Real Love…
Are You Drowning Your Children? - Real Love Blog
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Are You Drowning Your Children?

Cynthia called me and described a family in crisis. Her husband was miserable, their marriage was falling apart, and her children were in various states of anger, rebellion, and withdrawal. After listening to her complaints for a while—and…
The Lies That Will Not Die - Real Love Blog
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The Lies That Will Not Die

Everywhere I go I see people crippled by a low opinion of themselves—everywhere, as though it were a communicable disease. Is that true for you? When you screw up, for example, do you feel painfully guilty? Excessive guilt—sometimes called…
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Healing and Pain

Over the years I've done a great deal of manual labor in my backyard: planting, cutting down trees, splitting wood, hauling boulders, digging ditches, and the like. I didn't realize that in the process I was damaging my shoulders, and eventually…

It’s Just Two Squirrels

The other day I was looking out a window and suddenly experienced double vision. Medically speaking, this is generally not a good sign, so I looked more closely. I then realized that two nearly identical squirrels were running at the same speed…