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Only Love Eliminates Pain

Learn how to eliminate the pain from your past and start living the happy life YOU deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles…
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Pain Makes Us Insane

Eliminate YOUR pain—and experience the incredible transformation it will have not only on your life but on the lives of everyone around you—by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "I give a copy of one of Dr. Baer's…
How Much Anger Will It Take? - Real Love Blog
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How Much Anger Will It Take?

Learn how to ELIMINATE (not just manage) anger and resentment from your life by visiting the Anger Management page. "Since Real Love I don’t carry around that burden of resentments anymore. What a freedom! Sometimes I feel like I could…
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Love Gives Us Voice

I once talked to a teenaged girl who had been emotionally neglected by her father and physically abandoned by her mother. She felt so discarded and alone that she had no sense at all of her worth. In her eyes, her facial expression, and her…
Focus On The Healing - Real Love Blog
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Focus On The Healing

Heal your past and start living the joyful life YOU deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life…
Give Truth A Chance - Real Love Blog
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Give Truth A Chance

Tom called, and the short version—the real meaning—of the stories he told was this: "I'm miserable. I'm afraid. I feel so alone. I'm discouraged. Nobody loves me. Nobody will ever love me." I'd heard him talk like this many times before,…
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Change the Past

"Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in your past." Liz Hale, Ph.D. Heal YOUR past and start living the joyful life you deserve now by…
Are You Chained By A String? - Real Love Blog
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Are You Chained By A String?

I've never seen the process myself, but I have read in multiple sources that when elephants are very young, the owners tie a rope around a single leg and fasten it to a stake pounded in the ground. The young elephant struggles to free himself,…
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Pain

Heal your pain from the past and move forward with the joyful life you deserve by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "Dr. Greg Baer gave me what I’d been missing in 25 years as a therapist. He explained the powerful and…
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A Road Out

Get out of the swamp and start living the joyful life you deserve by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life…
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You Pay For What You Get

For many years Julie had used guilt and intimidation to control every thought, word, and behavior of her husband, Don. This is hardly an accusation, since she was doing only what she had been taught all her life by her parents and others. Regrettably,…
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Lies Of A Lifetime

Discard the lies of your past and start living the happy, fulfilling life you deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD (Post-Childhood Stress Disorder). "So many psychotherapists don't understand the lasting effects of childhood on the happiness…
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"I'm So Fat!"

Corinne said to me, "I'm disgusted with my life." "Really?" I said. "Name a specific thing you're disgusted about." "I'm so fat!" "So rather than argue about whether you really are fat—which is debatable—let's just accept what you…
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You Are Not Garbage

Jerry had been studying Real Love for several months and practicing the principles with his wife, Marge. "I just keep screwing it up," Jerry said. "I know the right thing to do, but when Marge starts in with criticizing me, it's like I go…
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Clearly See

Eliminate the wounds of your past and start living the happy life you deserve NOW by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform…
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You Keep Yourself Worthless

When a parent frowns at a child, she hears this: "When you don't do what I want—when you are not the person I want you to be—I become disappointed and irritated. I love you only when you meet my needs and don't inconvenience or frighten…
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To Truly Live

Leave behind your past and learn how to start living the joyous life you deserve by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "Dr. Baer makes it clear to everyone! You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform…
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The Surprising Ways We Train Our Children

Susanne called me and described how angry her two teenage boys were. They fought her constantly, used abusive language toward her, and turned every meal into a brawl. She, her husband, and her sons were all quite miserable. When she asked…
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Old Patterns

Free yourself from old patterns of beliefs and the wounds you've been carrying around since childhood by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder here:
You Are So Mean - Real Love Blog
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You Are So Mean

Stephanie called me to say that her 14-year-old daughter, Lee Ann, was out of control: angry, sexually promiscuous, having problems in school, and more. Questions revealed that Stephanie had felt unloved all her life, and she had reacted to…
Do You Hear What I Hear? - Real Love Blog
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Do You Hear What I Hear?

One night as I was talking in my driveway with a friend from New York City, he said, "What is that sound? I can hardly hear myself think." I had no idea what he was talking about. "What sound?" I asked. As he described the noise, I realized…