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Lions and Tigers and Bears–Oh My!! - Real Love Blog
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Lions And Tigers And Bears–Oh My!!

Carla called me, trembling, and said she had seen a spider in her house the day before, and for more than twenty-four hours she had been too frightened to move. I suggested that in the short term there were some things she might do to limit…
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Which Do You Choose?

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Climbing The Eiger - Real Love Blog
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Climbing the Eiger

In Switzerland there's a mountain called The Eiger, which rises more than 13,000 feet above sea level. It's a popular mountain for climbers, but it's also quite dangerous, having claimed dozens of lives over the years. One of the dangers of…
Stretch Through The Pain - Real Love Blog
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Stretch Through The Pain

A few years ago I began to experience increasing pain in my left knee, with accumulation of fluid in the synovial space. When non-prescription, oral anti-inflammatory medication proved ineffective, I saw an orthopedist, who discovered that my…
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Pain Is Information

The primary motivation of nearly every human being is to decrease pain. Understandable. Who likes to be in pain? But pain is INFORMATION. It tells us that something is WRONG, something that may injure or even consume us—something we need to…
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Who We Really Are

When we look in the mirror, only rarely do we see who we really are. Instead we see our accumulated responses to pain, which cover up who we really are. Free yourself from the pain of the past and uncover the REAL you by reading Real Love…
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Finding Ourselves

Watch this video to wake up and discover how "Awareness Is The Key To Happiness." https://youtu.be/3dyogjU_Zd8
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The Stepping Stones of Pain

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Why Isn't Real Love Everywhere - Real Love Blog
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Why Isn't Real Love Everywhere?

Someone wrote to me, "If Real Love is so essential, then why doesn't it just occur naturally everywhere? And why has it taken this long for Real Love to be discovered? And why is it difficult to learn?" Just because something is good—or…
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Enjoy It All

All the pain in your life has made it possible for you to learn what you know now. What a waste of time it would be to regret that. Simply enjoy the fruits of your past experience and present wisdom. Start enjoying every moment of this amazing…
Transform Pain Into Love - Real Love Blog
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Transform Pain Into Love

Is it not a great miracle that we can transform pain into love? Read or listen to Real Love to learn how to heal your pain and start living the joyous life you've always wanted.
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Understanding vs. Real Power

As we study the principles of Real Love, we come to understand that when other people behave badly toward us, they're just drowning. When people lie to us, get angry, criticize us, and more, they're just empty and afraid. They're doing what…
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Only Love Banishes Pain

Beliefs forged in a furnace of pain can only distort the soul and produce yet more pain. Only love banishes pain and gives the soul freedom to find truth and joy. Experience this freedom for yourself by reading Real Love and Freedom for the…
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Choose Now

The pain of our past can be eliminated only by our choices in the present. The future is often nothing but a continuation of our choices in the present. The present is all we have, so we might consider focusing entirely on what we choose to…
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The Good Germs

In the past thirty years, asthma rates in children have doubled—with one in ten children suffering from this disorder. A recent study, however—published by the New England Journal of Medicine—discovered that kids who grow up on farms are…
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Healing and Pain

Over the years I've done a great deal of manual labor in my backyard: planting, cutting down trees, splitting wood, hauling boulders, digging ditches, and the like. I didn't realize that in the process I was damaging my shoulders, and eventually…
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When Not To Speak

When we speak while we’re feeling unloved, all that comes out are the unbridled and contorted expressions of our pain. On these occasions, it’s far better not to speak, except to those who can see and love us. If you need someone who…
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Adjusting to Finding Love

“I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.” (Edgar Allan Poe) Without love, pain makes us insane. As we adjust to finding love and sanity, the absence of our familiar craziness can seem horribly uncomfortable. How do you…
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Out of Gas and Hating It

The gas gauge in my car tells me with reasonable accuracy how much fuel I have left in the tank. I hate the inconvenience of pulling over to refuel, though, so sometimes I put it off until the last possible moment. When I wait too long, however,…
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How We Learn and Grow the Most

Every day I talk to people who believe that they are unlovable. Why do they believe this? Because of the terrible decisions they have made in their lives. With all those mistakes, how could they possibly be lovable? All over the world, people…
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The True Nature of Selfishness

Recently I had a phone conversation with Christine. Her marriage is falling to pieces, her children are acting out, she has no friends, and she is personally miserable. She said she didn't want to live like that anymore, so I attempted to help…