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Fear of Mistakes Makes You Forget Who You Really Are

When we get caught up in our fear of the mistakes of this moment, we forget that we are in the midst of an eternal and unknowably grand experience. Learn how to live without the fear of mistakes. Enjoy the peaceful and abundant life you were…
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How Being Wrong Creates Happiness (Video Clip)

To have a great relationship, we need to know what creates happiness and love and be willing to freely admit it when we make mistakes. https://youtu.be/x1gsPXUrgS0
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Laugh Heartily at Your Mistakes

Laugh heartily at your mistakes and be free to be happy and peaceful! Listen to Real Love and learn how to feel loved, give up your mistakes, and laugh at them.
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Are You Living in the Stone Age?

Just this morning I was working on an outline for a presentation I'll be doing next month. As I wrote, the ideas seemed to flow through my fingers onto the computer screen. Moments like this are magical, even though I make many mistakes which…
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Loving Your Kids Now

You made a lot of mistakes with your children. Now let go of the disasters, lose the guilt, and don't try to make up for them. Just start loving your kids now, and—if they’re young enough or willing—teach them occasionally. Learn how…
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Stop Hurting Me!

Years ago I took a group of young men on a canoe trip down a swift river. Although everyone was carefully instructed in how to safely maneuver their craft, one young man, Dean, fell out of his canoe, and we soon discovered that he had not properly…
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What I Meant To Say

Martin called me and said, “Ashley [his wife] is mad at me, and it doesn’t make any sense.” “What happened?” I asked. “She made dinner for us last night, and the squash was way overcooked. It was more like a mush than a vegetable.” “I’m…
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Thin Ice

Inevitably, in the process of learning and growing, we make mistakes—sometimes big mistakes. Understandably, we tend to think of these mistakes as failures. Maybe, but there is a much more realistic and encouraging perspective for these…
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Life Is Rich

Get the support and love you need to successfully rise from your mistakes and failures by joining in on a Free Real Love Conference Call. "I just had a clerk at Walmart say, 'I wish the whole world could be as happy as you look right now.'…
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Take The Risks

Become a member of RealLove.com to get the love and support you need while you're making mistakes and learning how to find the love and genuine happiness you've always wanted. "One of my favorite things to do while enjoying my morning coffee…
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We Feel Loved Most Powerfully While We’re Making Mistakes (Video Clip)

All our lives we’ve been accepted only if we did the right things. We can’t truly feel loved until we’re accepted while we’re making mistakes. Make some mistakes. https://youtu.be/Y0kfCOI6oIg
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Wrong Perspective

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What Can I Do with a Child Who Won’t Speak to Me?

Celia wrote and said, “I have been practicing Real Love for several months now, and the most striking thing I’ve learned is how many mistakes I’ve made with my two adult children, especially my son. I hear from my daughter once in a while,…
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