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Playing The Organ - Real Love Blog
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Playing The Organ

From childhood I've played the piano, and when I was twelve, the church we attended asked if I could play their organ for the Sunday services. I said, "Sure," and then I scrambled to teach myself how to play this instrument I had no experience…
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Love Because

Don’t love because you should, or because it would make other people happy. Love because you just can’t help yourself, because you simply cannot withhold the river of it that is flowing into you. Find Real Love for yourself and watch…
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An Answer

Live Real Love and BE the light people will want to ask about. Start on your path to joy and happiness by watching The Essentials of Real Love DVDs:
Are You Willing To Pay The Price? - Real Love Blog
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Are You Willing To Pay The Price?

Elaine called me and said, "I need some work done around my house, and for years I've used the services of this guy, Clay, who does pretty good work and doesn't overcharge me. But he really gets on my nerves—bad. And I must not be the only…
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Real Love in China

Recently I heard from a man who runs a psychology clinic in Yanbian City, China. He has read all ten of the Real Love books that have been translated into Chinese, and I have visited their facility there, as well as the university in the city.…
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The Power of Love

When we love another person, the power from an infinite source fills us and flows through us. Experience the joy that comes from sharing unconditional love with the people in your life by reading Real Love for Wise Men and Women.
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Keep It Simple

Dwayne and Natalie kept having regular arguments about kids, money, sex, household chores, and more—the usual stuff in a long-term relationship. Every day there was some problem that needed urgent solution, but no matter how many problems…
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Our Ultimate Goal

Our ultimate goal is to love as fully and deeply as possible all the people within our sphere of influence—not because we should, but because it is the irresistible expression of who we are. Learn more about finding and sharing Real Love…
Loving Difficult People - Real Love Blog
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Loving Difficult People

Lara called me and said, "Just when I think I've learned something about loving people unconditionally, my mother calls me, and after five minutes I'm a complete basket case. Maybe I don't know anything about loving people." "As I remember,…
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Laying Down Your Selfishness

"Greater love has no man that this, that he lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13) Rarely will you ever have the opportunity to lay down your life for another person by dying, but every day you can give your life by laying down your…
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Loving and Thinking

Loving and thinking are both necessary, and if we consistently put loving before thinking, the results will be far more profitable—for us and for others.
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Better

Never speak against the plans or actions of someone unless you have a proposal that is significantly better.
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Sixteen Ways To Say I Love You

Although most of us thirst to hear the words I love you, they can also be unsettling—even frightening—because in the past these words have been associated with experiences that were not entirely pleasant. It’s very common for people to…
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Loving and Serving

Loving and serving people is uplifting both to us and to those we serve. Rescuing people, however, is often harmful, which happens when we do something for people that they CAN and NEED to do for themselves.
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As We Feel Loved

"If we had a keen vision and feeling of all ordinary human life, it would be like hearing the grass grow and the squirrel's heart beat, and we should die of that roar which lies on the other side of silence." (George Eliot) When you grasp the…
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Scars of Love

For years my friend Patti has kept a pair of Doberman Pinschers that she rescued from an animal shelter. Recently one of the dogs died, and she adopted another. The new dog, Deacon, suffered from a disorder of his paws, and one day as she…
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If You Don't Have Love

"For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" (Mark 8:37) No matter what you collect in toys and accomplishments, if you don’t have love, you have nothing. Live your life to the fullest, not…
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Celebrate All Year

Feeling a little let-down after the passage of Christmas? Why do that to yourself? Christmas is ALL about loving, and why would that have to be limited to a particular day or season? Continue celebrating Christmas in your heart and in your behavior…
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Gifts Years From Now

Years from now, people will not remember the material gifts you gave them, but they will remember how you looked at them and treated them. Learn how to find and give the best gift of all — Real Love — here:
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Gifts that People Remember

All toys and jewelry eventually break or become tiresome, but people will remember your kindness, your touching, and your forgiveness. Learn more about how to give the gifts that others will remember here:
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Love is a Feeling Freely Shared

My grandson said to me: “Grandpa, why do most people not look like they’re having fun at Christmas? They look like they have to get something DONE.” Love is a choice and a feeling freely shared, not a task to be accomplished. Relax…