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Put Loving Before Thinking

Loving and thinking are both necessary. The results will be far more profitable—for us and for others if we consistently put loving before thinking. Fill your mind with loving, grateful and generous thoughts so that you will be ready…

Loving Other People More Than Ourselves

On many occasions I’ve heard people propose the idea that we should love other people more than ourselves. On the surface, this sounds like a potentially attractive idea. When people hear it, they almost uniformly nod their heads in deep…

The Mountain Stream Allegory (Video Clip)

Become a conduit so that you can love others without getting drained. Fill your life with peace and happiness. Learn how love others AND practice what you learn. Listen to The Essentials of Real Love and…

Bring on the Bad Breath

A friend, Larry, and I were talking about how much people want Real Love in their lives. "I was talking to another friend one day," Larry said, "who told me how much he hated bad breath. He couldn't be in the same room with it. I said that I…

Near-Death Experience

For decades now, people have described "near-death experiences (NDEs)," where they have physically died–no breathing or heartbeat. But then they returned to life after a period of several minutes. During that time, they were consciously aware…

Unloving Moments

A coach suggested that we collect some of the UNloving things that people say, especially the ones that the speaker would not recognize as unloving. "I hate you" is universally recognized as unloving, but we have so many subtle—and therefore…
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A Definition of Love

A Definition of Love It's Real Love when I care about your happiness without wanting anything from you in return. It's Real Love when you care about my happiness without wanting anything from me. This is a very important definition of…
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Our Ultimate Goal is to Love Fully and Deeply

Our ultimate goal is to love as fully and deeply as possible all the people within our sphere of influence—not because we should, but because it is the irresistible expression of who we are. Listen to Real Love, the truth about unconditional…
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Look for the Pain

People in Pain Almost every person alive is suffering from an unspoken and mostly unrealized pain that bubbles right under the surface. They hide it, but if anything difficult happens, they can no longer contain the pain. Then out it comes–often…

Scientific Evidence for Real Love

Brené Brown is a professor at the University of Houston graduate school of social work. She is not a psychologist or counselor. She does scientific research regarding human behavior, and following are some of her conclusions:" * What we…

Stopping Evil

The other day I received the following letter: "Recently I read the following quotation: 'All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.' (Edmund Burke) The same evening my wife and I were eating in a restaurant,…
Ways to Say I love you

16 Ways to Say "I Love You"

Although most of us thirst to hear the words I love you, they can also be unsettling — even frightening — because in the past these words have been associated with experiences that were not entirely pleasant. It’s very common for people…

A Resolution Worth Making

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Consciously Focus On Others

Learn how to consciously focus on others by listening to Real Love today.
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Celebrate Christmas All Year Round

Learn how to unconditionally love yourself and others all year. Listen to Real Love today.

Live According to True and Loving Principles

Fill your life, your home, your world with true and loving principles this season and always. Listen to Real Love here.

When People Are Drowning, Am I Missing It?

A few days ago a friend sent me an article from the Internet that described a boat captain who jumped from the cockpit, fully dressed, and swam as fast as he could toward a couple swimming in the tropical waters. "He thinks you're drowning,"…

Love and Teach People

Learn how to love and teach people and make your world a better place. Listen to Real Love today.    
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Telling People What They Need to Hear

Are you confused or fearful about telling people what they WANT to hear, rather than what they NEED to hear? Stop enabling and hurting them. Learn how by listening to or reading Real Love.

Pushing vs Loving for Growth (Video Clip)

Really caring about someone’s growth and happiness often means taking them right to the edge of their comfort.

Tendency to Control People and Things

Get rid of your fears and you will not need to control people and things. Watch this video clip: Would you like to hear Greg's voice every single day?!? Become a member of and watch hundreds of…