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Learning and Growing Make You Happier

Learning and growing, happiness and peace are all possible for you. Learn how. Listen to Real Love today.
Are you are learner or an arguer?

Questions vs Buts

Every day I get a number of questions from people who want guidance in some way. Some people are asking genuine questions, while others are arguing to maintain that their present beliefs or behaviors are right. How can we tell the difference…

Learn To Navigate

Experience the joy of being in the flow of genuine happiness by becoming a member of today. "This will change your life profoundly and immediately. There is nothing else like Real Love anywhere." Elise, Canada

Comfort Coma

Comfortable. What a great word. It evokes images of sitting in an easy chair, warm, dry, fed, and without any discomfort. For most people, it’s actually the highest goal of life. Given the choice, who would choose discomfort over comfort? So…

Why Do I Sometimes Act So Badly?

Christine called, and I could almost feel her shaking her head. "I just do not understand," she said, "why I treat James so badly sometimes. Everything is fine for a while, and then I blow up at him. Later, when I look back, what he did to provoke…

Wrong Perspective

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How Good Are Your Steps?

Behind our house there's a lake that is contained by an eight-foot high earthen dike. In a couple of places I built a set of concrete block steps that made it possible for us to walk more easily up the side of the dike to the lake. The steps…

The Big Picture

In college I majored in chemistry, and I was fascinated at how I could combine basic elements and simple molecules to create molecules of increasing complexity—especially if there was some kind of explosive as a product (I was young). Chemistry…
Opportunity to Learn - Real Love Blog

Opportunity to Learn

Every moment of our lives is an opportunity to learn. If we pause to complain instead, a potentially irreplaceable opportunity may be lost.

The Willingness to Learn is EVERYTHING (Video Clip)

People talk about so many traits that they desire in a potential partner or friend or employee, but the greatest—by FAR—is the willingness to learn, without which everything else is just decoration.

Steps to the Next Answers

As we continue to learn, we discover that “the” answers we once had believed become only steps to the next answers.

Words That Matter, Part 5

We are often careless with our words, and some of them are so laden with negative meanings that we cause great harm without realizing it. Recently I began a discussion of such words, Words That Matter Part 4 Words That Matter Part 3 Words…


There are few crimes greater than persistently untended ignorance.
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Right, Right, Not

Shirley and her new husband, Mike, called me to talk about her twenty-five year old son, Ashton. Questions revealed that Ashton was an alcoholic, jobless, and living in a relationship beyond dysfunctional. Days before he had come over to the…

Avoid Pain

There is nothing we do more diligently than avoid pain, but pain is essential in the process of learning and growing.

The Secret of Learning

Much of the secret of learning is the willingness to wait patiently while we suffer the pain that will teach us.