Surviving Keeps Us from Living (Video Clip)

We all hide our pain in different ways. Whatever we do to survive that pain, keeps us from really living. Thrive! Don't just survive! Talk with Real Love Coaches on a Free Conference Call here. Do you want…
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Anger Never Works As Well As Loving

What's Really Happening When Anger Seems to Work Last week I posted a blog about establishing a personal zero tolerance for anger. Click here to read that blog. I should have anticipated—but did not—a question that would naturally follow…

Being in "The Flow" is Where Healing Occurs (Video Clip)

You have got to get rid of "the needles," then you will feel love.

The Knowledge and Love to Heal

Gain that life-saving and life-healing knowledge by listening to Real Love and then talking with a coach.
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Lost in the Woods of Words

Cynthia called to describe a problem and to ask for advice. For the purpose of teaching her a principle, I used a stopwatch to time her call (not something I ordinarily do). When she had finished, I said, "You just described a single confusing…
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What Does Real Love Look Like?

As a principle alone, Real Love is transformational. As I have taught the definition and nature of Real Love to people all around the world, I have been impressed with how they have lit up with understanding. As they have realized the role of…

Judgment—By What Standard?

Not a day goes by without my hearing people expressing pain about what they've done with their lives, what they're doing now, and who they are. At every turn, guilt and self-criticism seem to reign. Although the individual expressions vary,…


Learn how to eliminate fear and heal the wounds of your past by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in the past." Liz…

Until We Heal the Basic, Root Wounds, Nothing Else Matters (Video Clip)

We tend to complain about a wide variety of things, but we can’t solve any of the individual problems until we heal the big wounds first and find some measure of happiness.

Real Love Is Disturbing

Lori’s entire life had been punctuated by—no, dominated by—pain, fear, confusion, and anger. I spent a couple of days with her, and during that time she experienced, in her words, “More peace and calm than I’ve ever known, more than…

Willing To Give Up Everything

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Fatal Distraction

"You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in your past." Liz Hale, Ph.D. Heal your past now by reading Real Love and PCSD here:

Living With and Above

On a great many occasions I have written about the effects of Real Love in our early lives—depending on whether we had a sufficient supply, or we did not. The simple absence of sufficient Real Love is unbearably painful to a child, and causes…

Quiet Our Minds

Let Real Love help you quiet your mind and hear the inspiration that is all around you. Become a member of and start transforming your life today here:
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How Long Does It Take Our Old Wounds to Heal? (Video Clip)

The excavation of old wounds can seem endless, but we really can heal and eliminate them, one by one.  
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One Example Of Healing–Elena

Markus and Charlene called to tell me about their daughter, Elena, age twenty. Elena had already been in therapy for eleven years, with quite a variety of diagnoses: depression, bipolar disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, attention deficit…

Healing Balm Of Love

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Stop It!!

A married couple, Jack and Amy, were telling me how unhappy they were. Amy was an attacker who angrily criticized people—especially Jack and her children—from the time she opened her eyes in the morning until she fell asleep at night. She…

I Just Don't Remember

A woman wrote to me: "My adult son has been distant from me for many years. After I learned about Real Love, I made contact with him, hoping to heal the wounds he obviously has. But I got more than I bargained for. "I just about lost…