The Knowledge and Love to Heal

Gain that life-saving and life-healing knowledge by listening to Real Love and then talking with a coach.
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Lost in the Woods of Words

Cynthia called to describe a problem and to ask for advice. For the purpose of teaching her a principle, I used a stopwatch to time her call (not something I ordinarily do). When she had finished, I said, "You just described a single confusing…
What does real love look like?

What Does Real Love Look Like?

As a principle alone, Real Love is transformational. As I have taught the definition and nature of Real Love to people all around the world, I have been impressed with how they have lit up with understanding. As they have realized the role of…

Judgment—By What Standard?

Not a day goes by without my hearing people expressing pain about what they've done with their lives, what they're doing now, and who they are. At every turn, guilt and self-criticism seem to reign. Although the individual expressions vary,…


Learn how to eliminate fear and heal the wounds of your past by reading Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder. "You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in the past." Liz…

Willing To Give Up Everything

Talk with a Certified Real Love Coach HERE to discover exactly what is keeping you stuck and unhappy, and to start healing and living the happy life you deserve.

Fatal Distraction

"You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in your past." Liz Hale, Ph.D. Heal your past now by reading Real Love and PCSD here:
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Quiet Our Minds

Let Real Love help you quiet your mind and hear the inspiration that is all around you. Become a member of and start transforming your life today here:
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One Example Of Healing–Elena

Markus and Charlene called to tell me about their daughter, Elena, age twenty. Elena had already been in therapy for eleven years, with quite a variety of diagnoses: depression, bipolar disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, attention deficit…

Healing Balm Of Love

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Stop It!!

A married couple, Jack and Amy, were telling me how unhappy they were. Amy was an attacker who angrily criticized people—especially Jack and her children—from the time she opened her eyes in the morning until she fell asleep at night. She…
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I Just Don't Remember

A woman wrote to me: "My adult son has been distant from me for many years. After I learned about Real Love, I made contact with him, hoping to heal the wounds he obviously has. But I got more than I bargained for. "I just about lost…

Real Love Heals

With every wound, physical or emotional, we lose both strength and the ability to make some choices. Real Love heals the emotional wounds.

We Need Healing

It’s not more analysis of our problems that we need, but healing of our wounds.

Love Can Heal Those Wounds

The trauma of an unloving childhood is so severe that it can destroy any possibility of happiness for a lifetime. But love can heal those wounds.


We are all deeply flawed, and nearly all of us are terrified that this makes us less than worthwhile—which is a deadly lie. We need only be AWARE of our flaws and allow the love of others to heal our wounds while we work on the flaws, one…

Expose and Heal

We cannot rise above the restraint of our wounds until we expose and heal them, rather than protecting them, which is our natural instinct.


You can feel loved without conditions, but confidence comes only with work, risk, failure, pain, and recovery from apparent disaster.


If you are sufficiently afraid of more pain, you will not be able to endure what is required to heal.

Fatal Distraction

If we don’t understand the very old wounds we carry around, we become fatally distracted by our unconscious responses to the pain instead of healing the wounds.

Fix the Foundation

You can't build a solid house on a rotten, shifting foundation. If you were not unconditionally loved as a child, that is the kind of foundation you have, and no effort you put into the walls, windows, and doors will ever produce the results…