A picture of Mt. Everest with the title "I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest"

I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest

A couple called me and described their family. The two of them often bitterly quarreled. The children were in various kinds of trouble at school and otherwise. Not infrequently, the father hit his children and his wife. This was a family in…

A Garden of Miracles Planted with Seeds of Hope, Truth and Love

Just keep moving—sometimes only in your mind—as you plant seeds of hope, truth, and love. Before long you’ll discover that you’re in a garden of miracles, growing and nourished by your own faith and by an infinite hand now visible. Learn…

Less Pain Is Not Happiness

Living with a High Level of Emotional Pain   Almost all the people you talk to are experiencing a fairly high level of emotional pain. They have little to no experience with feeling unconditionally loved. That lack of love guarantees…
Joy is Everywhere

Potential Joy is Everywhere Around Us

Most of us wait our entire lives for the appearance of a mythical kind of happiness, all the while missing the potential joy that is everywhere around us. Don't miss another moment of happiness. Start listening to Real Love, the truth about…
What really matters

Confident About the Things that Really Matter

Feel the confidence that comes from filling your life with the things that really matter. Listen to Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships today.    
Earn Happiness

How We Earn Happiness

Learn how you earn happiness and all about unconditional love, telling the truth, finding love and sharing it with others today by listening to Real Love.
Happiness comes from obeying the laws of truth and love.

Gravity Does Not Pick On You

Tamara called and said, "I really miss Victor [her old boyfriend, whom she'd left two weeks before]." "I'm sure you do. Tell me what you miss." "He was fun, intelligent, lots of things." "Was he loving?" "Well, sometimes." I had…
Love must be the foundation of thought

Love Must Be the Foundation of Thinking

Love must be the foundation of thinking. Build your foundation with Real Love. Read or listen to Real Love today.
Are you are learner or an arguer?

Questions vs Buts

Every day I get a number of questions from people who want guidance in some way. Some people are asking genuine questions, while others are arguing to maintain that their present beliefs or behaviors are right. How can we tell the difference…
You're paying with you whole life

You're Paying with Your Whole Life

Matt called me and described how he was struggling personally and in his relationships. "Sounds like a lot of work," I said. "It is," he said. "I'm exhausted all the time." "So you're exhausted, miserable, and alone. That's the reward." "Not…
Happiness is being aware.

Happiness Comes from Being Aware

Need help being aware and understanding your feelings and what the heck you are doing? Join in on a FREE conference call and get the help you need.

Taking Responsibility for How We Feel (Video Clip)

Why should we take responsibility for how we feel? True happiness is based on true principles.

The Uneven Legs

If we want to create a condition of happiness in our lives, three conditions must be satisfied: We must feel unconditionally loved. We must be unconditionally loving. We must be responsible. These three conditions are like the three legs…

Want to Live Long? Surprise! Again, the Secret is Love

Our society is obsessed with living long and looking young. Look at our conversations about—and our advertisements for—medication, nutrition, supplements, physicians, cosmetic treatments, rejuvenating creams, and on and on. What I have easily…
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Proof: It’s All About Love . . . Again

Psychologists tend to study happiness as though it were a mystery. They suggest that happiness could be related to things like a meaningful career, spending time with friends, meditation, exercise, thinking positive thoughts, and taking time…

I Already Decided

Mark wrote, “The other day I was in a store carrying way too much stuff. I should have gotten a cart in the beginning, but I didn’t think of it. As I got to the end of an aisle, a woman ran into me and knocked everything out of my arms,…

“I’m Okay.”

Nicole had bounced from one man to another all her life, almost never living without a pathologic relationship. On one day when she called me, she was between men. I asked her how she was doing. "I'm okay," she said. We hear this answer…

The Stool of Happiness

On video chats and in seminars and more, many times I have referred to the three legs of the Stool of Happiness, which is very important. I described one leg of the stool in the blog, "Work Makes Us Happy and Strong." but I realized that I had…

Comfort Coma

Comfortable. What a great word. It evokes images of sitting in an easy chair, warm, dry, fed, and without any discomfort. For most people, it’s actually the highest goal of life. Given the choice, who would choose discomfort over comfort? So…

The List

Nearly every day someone tells me that they don’t know how to fill their day. Even after learning about unconditional love, they simply do not know what to do next—evidence that the Imitation Love in their lives has finally lost its attraction. Often…

Preparing and Enjoying

Several years ago I met Sheila, who had recently divorced her husband, lost her job, and alienated her adult children. She studied Real Love, learned to find it and feel it, and asked me what to do next. I recommended a long series of opportunities…