Less Pain Is Not Happiness

Living with a High Level of Emotional Pain   Almost all the people you talk to are experiencing a fairly high level of emotional pain. They have little to no experience with feeling unconditionally loved. That lack of love guarantees…
Joy is Everywhere

Potential Joy is Everywhere Around Us

Most of us wait our entire lives for the appearance of a mythical kind of happiness, all the while missing the potential joy that is everywhere around us. Don't miss another moment of happiness. Start listening to Real Love, the truth about…
What really matters

Confident About the Things that Really Matter

Feel the confidence that comes from filling your life with the things that really matter. Listen to Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships today.    
Earn Happiness

How We Earn Happiness

Learn how you earn happiness and all about unconditional love, telling the truth, finding love and sharing it with others today by listening to Real Love.
Happiness comes from obeying the laws of truth and love.

Gravity Does Not Pick On You

Tamara called and said, "I really miss Victor [her old boyfriend, whom she'd left two weeks before]." "I'm sure you do. Tell me what you miss." "He was fun, intelligent, lots of things." "Was he loving?" "Well, sometimes." I had…
Love must be the foundation of thought

Love Must Be the Foundation of Thinking

Love must be the foundation of thinking. Build your foundation with Real Love. Read or listen to Real Love today.
Are you are learner or an arguer?

Questions vs Buts

Every day I get a number of questions from people who want guidance in some way. Some people are asking genuine questions, while others are arguing to maintain that their present beliefs or behaviors are right. How can we tell the difference…
You're paying with you whole life

You're Paying with Your Whole Life

Matt called me and described how he was struggling personally and in his relationships. "Sounds like a lot of work," I said. "It is," he said. "I'm exhausted all the time." "So you're exhausted, miserable, and alone. That's the reward." "Not…
Happiness is being aware.

Happiness Comes from Being Aware

Need help being aware and understanding your feelings and what the heck you are doing? Join in on a FREE conference call and get the help you need.

“I’m Okay.”

Nicole had bounced from one man to another all her life, almost never living without a pathologic relationship. On one day when she called me, she was between men. I asked her how she was doing. "I'm okay," she said. We hear this answer…

Feeling Unconditionally Loved

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Listen to these inspiring stories of a cop, a convict, a lawyer, a mother, a teacher, and many others who chose Real Love NOW and transformed their lives. And learn how YOU can transform your life, too. “This book has given me hope. After…

There Are No Little Things, Only Choices

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How Can I Create Happiness Everywhere I Go? (Video Clip)

If you take the principles of feeling loved, loving others, and being responsible with you everywhere, you’ll always be happy.

Good, Fast, and Cheap

Recently I was getting my chain saw blade sharpened, and there on the wall of the shop was a sign: We do three types of jobs here: Good, Fast, and Cheap You may choose any two, but only two! If you want it fast and good, it won’t be…

Phrases That Mislead Part 2

In Real Love groups, conference calls, and other interactions, certain phrases have crept into use that are not consistent with the principles of Real Love, or that might cause confusion by their use. Recently I began a discussion of such phrases Phases…


Improving on who we are is a lifelong effort, but if we first don’t value and celebrate who we are now, we’re missing out on the joy of our lives.


Alesha has been having difficulties loving and teaching her son, Michael. He resists her about his homework, household chores, outbursts of anger, vulgar language, being late to everything, and more. He wrote me to find an ally, but I wrote: “Michael,…

Choose Happiness

We can choose to be happy, or we can choose to be miserable, which—ironically—requires more effort.

Laws of Happiness

God is always by your side, but if you deviate from the Laws of Happiness, the natural consequence is that you simply cannot FEEL Him there.