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Love Because

Don’t love because you should, or because it would make other people happy. Love because you just can’t help yourself, because you simply cannot withhold the river of it that is flowing into you. Find Real Love for yourself and watch…
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Just One Hand

Recently I was talking with a man whose life had become increasingly unhappy. A number of questions revealed—no surprise—that he had never felt unconditionally loved. So I showed him what Real Love looked like, and the effect was dramatic.…
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Real Love–Better Yield, Less Effort

Martin called me and said, "My wife, Cynthia, is all gaga over this Real Love stuff, and she wants me to get involved with her. But we've already done marriage counseling, read books, done retreats. None of it made any difference. Why try again?" I…
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Controlling Nothing

Learn how to let go of control and allow in Real Love–the only thing that can make you truly happy–by becoming a Member of RealLove.com here:
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Find A Compass And Map

Let Real Love show you the way to genuine happiness and the fulfilling relationships you've always wanted. Visit the Finding Real Love page here:
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Alone

Learn what Imitation Love is and how you can replace it with Real Love here:
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Waiting To Recharge

I have a Kindle, an electronic device that allows me to read a whole library of books that have been downloaded to its memory. In the upper right-hand corner of the screen is a power indicator, informing me how much of the full electric charge…
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Why Partnerships Fail

We find partners in the hope that they will heal our wounds and make us happy. But they are not equipped to do that, and when we discover this—which we refused to see from the beginning—our partnerships fail. Learn how to have the unconditionally…
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Seeking Love

Find Real Love and embrace the new, happy you by becoming a Member of RealLove.com today HERE:
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Tossing Wheat In The Air

As people come to me with their personal and relationship problems, one of the most recurring themes I hear is the desire to get more love from a particular person or group of people: "My husband never wants to spend time with me." "I really…
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Right Direction

Let Real Love guide you toward the love, happiness, and fulfilling relationships you've always dreamed of. Become a Member of RealLove.com today HERE.
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I Tried

I once organized an event that involved dozens of people. I delegated to Bob the task of contacting Charlene to bring tables. He said he would take care of it. When the day of the event arrived, there were no tables. When I asked Bob what…
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Splitting Wood

Finding Happiness Is Like Splitting Wood For the past several days I've been cutting, gathering, loading, and splitting wood—activities I have always enjoyed. A great deal of work is required to transform a fallen tree into smaller pieces…
Loving Difficult People - Real Love Blog
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Loving Difficult People

Lara called me and said, "Just when I think I've learned something about loving people unconditionally, my mother calls me, and after five minutes I'm a complete basket case. Maybe I don't know anything about loving people." "As I remember,…
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How Can I Love Myself More?

On a great many occasions I have been asked questions like, "How can I learn to love myself? I don't have much self-esteem, and it's affecting me in a lot of negative ways. People have told me I should love myself more, and I'm trying to, but…
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So Many Words–Like So Many Bricks

When I first met Marie she saw everything from the perspective of a victim. She complained endlessly about how people–notably her husband–and circumstances had inconvenienced her. People were always doing things to her and failing…
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The Behaviors That Trap Us

My home in the hills of north Georgia lies somewhere in the twilight between civilization and the wilds of the untamed woods. Although the front of the house faces a conventional street lined with homes, the backyard is filled with hundred-foot…
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Finding Real Love

Real Love is the most powerful force in the universe for positive transformation of the human soul. Over and over I have watched people as their lives have been revolutionized by unconditional love. Commonly I am asked how long it takes for…
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Remember to FEEL the Love

Remember to FEEL today—the love, the connection available to you—and then remember that feeling. Carry it with you. Learn how to feel it and keep it here:
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Faith In Love

Often what we need is not more love but more faith in the love we already have. Learn how to recognize and feel love. Learn more here:  
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Healing

When love replaces pain, THAT is healing.