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Just Relabel The Ordinate

Steven had been unhappy all his life. His father was distant, virtually not present emotionally, and his mother was a critical, angry woman. No matter how people tried to love him, he just couldn't seem to feel it or be happy. On one occasion…


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Feeling Loved

Feeling loved is like coming out of a lifetime in a deep, dark cave. Why would you ever want to go back? Find Real Love and come into the light and joy of life here:

Things To Do When You Just Can’t Quite Find Happiness

Being unconditionally loved in person is a powerful experience. It can change your life. But sometimes unconditionally loving people are not readily available, and we’re left wondering what to do with our time. If we do nothing, or if we fall…
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The Seduction of Justice

Steven described how his boss had given him an assignment that was much bigger than the assignment given to a coworker. "It's just not fair!!" Steven said. I have heard these words on many occasions, and rarely does the speaker understand…

Feel More

With our brains we tend to muddle and thereby lose the subtle spiritual messages we receive. We need to feel more and think less.
Loving Difficult People - Real Love Blog
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Loving Difficult People

Lara called me and said, "Just when I think I've learned something about loving people unconditionally, my mother calls me, and after five minutes I'm a complete basket case. Maybe I don't know anything about loving people." "As I remember,…
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Feel Loved

Belonging is a perspective of the mind. If I decide I belong, I do. I don't need others to indicate that I do. But belonging is NOT a “trick” of the mind. It’s not just a simple choice, either, or everyone could make it. If I feel loved,…

The Beauty of the Long Perspective

Not long after discovering Real Love, a man learned that he had a terminal illness. I asked him how he was doing. "Now that I feel truly loved for the first time in my life, I feel pretty great. The thought of dying just isn't frightening…

How Can I Love Myself More?

On a great many occasions I have been asked questions like, "How can I learn to love myself? I don't have much self-esteem, and it's affecting me in a lot of negative ways. People have told me I should love myself more, and I'm trying to, but…

Choose Joy

Our time here is limited, and beyond our control, but we CAN choose whether our time is filled with joy. Choose joy by choosing love. Learn how here: and practice what you learn with the companion workbook:
So Many Words—Like So Many Bricks - Real Love Blog
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So Many Words–Like So Many Bricks

As Marie sat down in my office, she launched into a fifteen-minute account of a recent conversation with her husband, Brandon. With a torrent of words she painted an exquisitely unflattering picture of Brandon that thoroughly justified her own…
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The Light of Faith and Love

There is no end to the doubts that bring confusion and misery, but they all turn to dust in the light of faith and love. Join Greg on his Live Tuesday Night Video Chat and learn how to feel the light of faith and love. Become a member…
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There is no miracle more impressive than a human being who is willing to admit that he’s wrong and to learn something that will change his perspective, feelings, and behaviors.
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The Power of Unconditional Love in Fear

A few years ago I was carrying my three-year-old grandson, Jack, through a nature preserve in Florida, where we watched a number of alligators sunning themselves at the edge of the water. At one point a large gator moved in the nearby brush,…
One person is targeted as best or winner and raises arms in happy triumph while others who are ignored or neglected have heads hung low in defeat and sadness
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People Don't Do Things TO YOU

People don’t do things TO YOU. They act FOR THEMSELVES, and your needs are simply less important than theirs. Free yourself from those destructive feelings by reading Real Love and Freedom for the Soul.

Feel Truly Loved

When you feel truly loved—by friends, by family, by God, whoever—you have an indestructible gem that cannot be injured or stolen by anyone else. Nobody can take your happiness. You become invincible. Find Real Love and experience the…
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Remember Feeling Loved

The ability to remember a moment when we felt loved can make all the difference in the world to us right now. Learn how to lose your fear and feel loved. Join today.
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As We Feel Loved

"If we had a keen vision and feeling of all ordinary human life, it would be like hearing the grass grow and the squirrel's heart beat, and we should die of that roar which lies on the other side of silence." (George Eliot) When you grasp the…
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If You Don't Have Love

"For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" (Mark 8:37) No matter what you collect in toys and accomplishments, if you don’t have love, you have nothing. Live your life to the fullest, not…

New Beginning

Just as today is the beginning of a new year, every day is the beginning of a new life. With every bit of added knowledge and experience—which we can acquire every day—we achieve different perspectives, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.…