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We Are Surrounded by Love Without Limits

Not feeling surrounded by love? Learn how to free yourself of fear, confusion and past pain so that you CAN feel the love that surrounds you. Listen to Real Love and PCSD and transform your life.

The Pain is Exhausting

Not long ago I met a woman in my home, and upon seeing her I said, “How do you get up in the morning?” “What do you mean?” she asked. “Because you look utterly exhausted, and we’re only at mid-morning. You look, as we would…
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You Are Never Alone

Aaron sat in front of me and said, “Yesterday I said something insignificant, and Roxanne (his wife) blew up at me. It made no sense. I tried to talk to her about it, but it was impossible, so finally I left the room.” “Was there anybody…

The Fear of Love

On many occasions people struggling with trust in the process of finding Real Love have said to me, “I’m afraid of love.” No. Nobody is afraid of being surrounded in the warm, soft, enriching embrace of unconditional love, but we do…

The Rash

Marti wrote me and said that her two-year-old daughter, Darcy, had developed a rash all over her body, as though she had rolled around in stinging nettle. But it was January, and the nettle had died out months before. So they put an antihistamine…

Closer to the Light

In physics we learn that the intensity of light radiating from a source is inversely proportional to the square of the distance from the source. This means that if we double the distance of an object from a light source, that object receives…

The Wonder of Christmas

I have written about Christmas several times—search “Christmas” in the master index on the website—mostly about how giving love is more powerful than giving physical gifts. But today I’m seeing Christmas from a different perspective.…

The Bond Formed Under Fire

I have spoken to many men who have been in battle, and often they form a profound bond with each other. They have shared an experience that others will never know, and the sharing draws them closer. This bond of battle, however, does not…

The Bilge Pump

Linda called and said, “I’m tired of dealing with that woman from HR (Human Resources). Every few days she has some kind of complaint about me or our department.” After talking with Linda for a couple of minutes, it became obvious…

The Drunken Party

I received the following letter from a remarkable fifteen-year-old girl, and I copy it here without comment. It needs none. Friday night was my prom, accompanied by the whole shazam: fake tan, manicure, buckets of makeup and—of course—the…

Pearls from Winnie the Pooh

In the 1920s, A.A. Milne wrote several books and poems about Winnie-the-Pooh, a living teddy bear with friends who typified—with wit and poignancy—many of the qualities of us as humans. Recently a friend sent me 20 lessons gleaned from Winnie-the-Pooh,…

Feeling Loved Enough

Once you feel loved enough to eliminate fear, you will learn who you are, and then what you need to do next becomes increasingly clear.

I Want to Be an Astronaut

Marcus came to me in great pain, asking me to make it possible for him to have a relationship with Marie, the love of his life. Some time before, they had been together as a couple for two years, but despite their great passion for each other,…

Clinging Like a Baby Monkey

I saw a middle-aged man who was anxious and depressed, and was having considerable conflict and disappointments in his marriage and at work. The more loved he felt, the more astonished he became at how long he had lived without that life-giving…

The Elegance of the Solution

For many years I was a scientist—first as a high-temperature, high pressure chemist creating molecules never before seen, and then practicing the science of medicine and surgery. I discovered that often there were many solutions for a given…

Eliminate Fears

People everywhere wonder “who they really are.” When we’re afraid, that’s ALL we are: afraid and reacting to fear. When we finally eliminate our fears, we begin to discover who we are and what we can freely choose.

What Happens If I Don’t Move

Lorraine had made fairly good progress toward happiness in Real Love for a year. But then she came to me and said, “I seem to have hit a plateau of some kind. I had lost a lot of my fear. I feel much happier than I used to, but now my growth…