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We Can't Make Good Choices While We are Afraid (Video Clip)

Do you ever feel afraid? Watch this clip and learn how to calm down and feel peaceful. https://youtu.be/YRNC0eGbOO4 Talk to others who are seeking peace on a Free Conference Call, moderated by a trained Real Love Coach here. You CAN replace…

Surviving Keeps Us from Living (Video Clip)

We all hide our pain in different ways. Whatever we do to survive that pain, keeps us from really living. https://youtu.be/31nDIfpugik Thrive! Don't just survive! Talk with Real Love Coaches on a Free Conference Call here. Do you want…
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The Path Well Trodden

On many occasions I have wandered through dense woods, both on foot and while riding an ATV (All Terrain Vehicle). It doesn’t take long to notice that the more a path is traveled, the bigger it becomes, and the easier it is so see. When…
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Where To Get Love

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Telling the Story

A woman, Sinead, wrote to tell me, “When I got home yesterday, my husband, Sam, looked annoyed and distracted. He told me that he was angry and didn't feel like talking about it, so he went for a walk. When he got back, I asked him how he…
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Eating With The Chickens

A mother eagle failed to return to her nest, where a single hatchling screamed for his supper. Eventually he jumped from the nest and fell to the forest floor, where a chicken found him and took him home to her barnyard. The young eagle,…

The Downside of Healing

Renee called and said, “Frank can be so controlling. And then I get angry, and I’m right back where I was a year ago.” “Do you feel more loved by wise people now than you did six months ago?” I asked. “Oh yes, by a lot.”…

A Chicken with No Head

For many years I was a Boy Scout leader, specifically working with Varsity Scouts, ages 14-15. I intended to provide them with a large variety of unusually challenging experiences that would build their confidence: rappelling, canoeing in white…

Pruning Early

I have a great number of plants growing in my backyard, most of which I planted, intending them to be a decorative feast, as well as to serve functions like shade, hedging, and more. But many others plants are simply “volunteers,” which…
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What Can You Look for in a Wise Person? (Video Clip)

Being a true wise person means feeling loved, being loving, and being fearless. https://youtu.be/QRN-pf70SiI

Real Love in China

Recently I heard from a man who runs a psychology clinic in Yanbian City, China. He has read all ten of the Real Love books that have been translated into Chinese, and I have visited their facility there, as well as the university in the city.…
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No Greater Love

There is no greater love than telling someone something about themselves that you know they won't like.

The Map of a Cave

The first time I went into a cave, I was with a relatively inexperienced person—a spelunker—who enjoyed the exploration of caves. With time, I accompanied men and women with more experience—cavers—who took more advanced equipment for…
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Over and Over Again

After high school I traveled from the cornfields of Indiana to the mountains of the West to attend college. One day four of us, all freshmen, drove up to a nearby resort to spend the day skiing. We got on the ski lift and enjoyed the exhilaration…
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Pediatrics, Veterinarians, and Relationships

When I was in medical school, I considered the pursuit of a number of specialties. I was a father at the time, and fond of children, so I did think about becoming a pediatrician—a doctor specializing in the care of children. But then I did…
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Phrases That Mislead, Part 7

In Real Love groups, conference calls, and other Real Love interactions, certain phrases have crept into use that are not consistent with the principles of Real Love, or that might cause confusion by their use. Recently I began a discussion…
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Loving Power

When we first experience and genuinely trust unconditional love, we are dipping our fingers in the tidal pools of a vast ocean whose loving power is beyond our comprehension.

Can’t Deny the Evidence

One day a man sat down on the couch opposite my rocking chair, and I said, “You’ve been in unspeakable pain all your life.” He burst into tears and continued crying for several minutes. “How did you know that?” he asked, obviously…

Phrases That Mislead, Part 4

In Real Love groups, conference calls, and other Real Love interactions, certain phrases have crept into use that are not consistent with the principles of Real Love, or that might cause confusion by their use. Recently I began a discussion…
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Phrases That Mislead, Part 3

In Real Love groups, conference calls, and other Real Love interactions, certain phrases have crept into use that are not consistent with the principles of Real Love, or that might cause confusion by their use. Recently I began a discussion…
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The Safety of a Guide

Recently I visited my grandchildren in Phoenix. One of them, Jack, had just turned eight, and he invited me to play a video game with him, a game where the heavily armed characters—him and me—fought valiantly to save mankind from the evil…