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Surviving Keeps Us from Living (Video Clip)

We all hide our pain in different ways. Whatever we do to survive that pain, keeps us from really living. https://youtu.be/31nDIfpugik Thrive! Don't just survive! Talk with Real Love Coaches on a Free Conference Call here. Do you want…
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What it Takes to Trust Someone (Video Clip)

Take the fear out of changing your life for the better by not being afraid. Decide to trust somebody to help you. Watch this video clip and learn how: https://youtu.be/GNa7s-5SMN4 Join a Free Conference Call here and talk with others seeking…
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What Do I Trust? (Video Clip)

Success at finding and transforming your life with Real Love depends on trusting one person and never quitting. Do whatever it takes to get there. https://youtu.be/2PmQrai45p8 Replacing the fear and confusion in your life with peace and…
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Let's Stick with NOW (Video Clip)

When dealing with people who are displaying signs of "victimhood", don't let them bring up the past. Only deal with how they are feeling NOW. https://youtu.be/EC-rr_xYTm0 Read Real Love and Freedom for the Soul and help a friend, loved…
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Start Over with the Help of Someone You Trust (Video Clip)

Make sense of your current confusion and pain, not by picking over the past, but by starting over with someone you completely trust. https://youtu.be/KAfFAhgPcVM
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How Are You Feeling? (Video Clip)

Responding to this question with “fine” or “OK” is a knee jerk reaction for most of us. Learn how to help others tap into how they are REALLY feeling. https://youtu.be/EWrvj2l-zU0
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Pushing vs Loving for Growth (Video Clip)

Really caring about someone’s growth and happiness often means taking them right to the edge of their comfort. https://youtu.be/SBZ9xRE1_eo
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Processing Emotions (Video Clip)

We need a Wise Person to help us understand and process our strongest emotions. https://youtu.be/p7ho23M9IJo You can understand and change your life with the help of coaching or an intervention.
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How We Help People Change (Video Clip)

Getting the right combination of truth and love will help people decide they can change. https://youtu.be/kebpwb4Y17k
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Most of Us Don’t Know How to Just RECEIVE Love (Video Clip)

Just receiving unconditional love in a partnership is very difficult, which is why we usually need a wise person where we ONLY receive love, which is far more healing. https://youtu.be/Ea6fbFTPq24  
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The Ratio of Loving to Teaching (Video Clip)

People do need to feel loved before they can listen, but ratio of loving to teaching changes all the time. Sometimes stern teaching is required. https://youtu.be/9bDF6GXp2TQ
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What Can A Wise Person Do To Be More Loving? (Video Clip)

There are many things we can do to prepare to be more loving with people. https://youtu.be/HpjIBXpJXi4
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How to Respond to People Who Are Crying (Video Clip)

If somebody is crying during group and can’t speak, is it all right on such occasions to hold someone? https://youtu.be/uzwCu9ZLa9w
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Eating With The Chickens

A mother eagle failed to return to her nest, where a single hatchling screamed for his supper. Eventually he jumped from the nest and fell to the forest floor, where a chicken found him and took him home to her barnyard. The young eagle,…
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The Downside of Healing

Renee called and said, “Frank can be so controlling. And then I get angry, and I’m right back where I was a year ago.” “Do you feel more loved by wise people now than you did six months ago?” I asked. “Oh yes, by a lot.”…
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A Chicken with No Head

For many years I was a Boy Scout leader, specifically working with Varsity Scouts, ages 14-15. I intended to provide them with a large variety of unusually challenging experiences that would build their confidence: rappelling, canoeing in white…
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Pruning Early

I have a great number of plants growing in my backyard, most of which I planted, intending them to be a decorative feast, as well as to serve functions like shade, hedging, and more. But many others plants are simply “volunteers,” which…
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What Can You Look for in a Wise Person? (Video Clip)

Being a true wise person means feeling loved, being loving, and being fearless. https://youtu.be/QRN-pf70SiI
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Real Love in China

Recently I heard from a man who runs a psychology clinic in Yanbian City, China. He has read all ten of the Real Love books that have been translated into Chinese, and I have visited their facility there, as well as the university in the city.…
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No Greater Love

There is no greater love than telling someone something about themselves that you know they won't like.
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The Map of a Cave

The first time I went into a cave, I was with a relatively inexperienced person—a spelunker—who enjoyed the exploration of caves. With time, I accompanied men and women with more experience—cavers—who took more advanced equipment for…