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We CAN Choose Whether or Not our Time is Filled with Joy

With Real Love as our guide, we can begin to heal the wounds of our past, create rewarding and fulfilling relationships in every area of our lives and choose whether or not our time is filled with joy.
A picture of Mt. Everest with the title "I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest"

I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest

A couple called me and described their family. The two of them often bitterly quarreled. The children were in various kinds of trouble at school and otherwise. Not infrequently, the father hit his children and his wife. This was a family in…
Fear is Irrational

The Complete Insanity of Fear

I've been having lower back pain for more than a year, and I didn't see a doctor because I have an admittedly foolish tendency to hope that physical symptoms will just go away–as most do. Finally, though, I noticed that my left big toe…

Some Behaviors Need to Stop First (Video Clip)

To be more loving is a creative, growth process. But to keep that process going, some behaviors have to stop NOW.
Choose to Trust People

Choose to Trust People

Choose to trust people and create the possibility that you will feel loved by them. Your pain will disappear—all because of your choice. Learn more about making wise choices by listening to Real Love.  
Start Over.

Starting Over

Starting over doesn't have to be daunting and you don't need to do it alone. Take advantage of the many resources at that are there to help you: Free Conference Call, Loving People to Talk To, Coaching, or an Intervention with Greg.…
The Lure of Imitation Love

Glow Worms

Very deep in the bowels of a few caves in the world live tiny worms, which never see even the slightest ray of light from the sun. Clinging to the cave ceilings, they manufacture slender strands of silk, punctuated by globules of mucous. Pulled…
Choose to enjoy the sunshine.

Choose to Enjoy the Sunshine

Empower yourself and choose to enjoy the sunshine and freedom of Real Love. Listen to Real Love today.

Those Dam Problems

In our backyard is a man-made lake, which was created by making an earthen dam on our side of the water. We also have beavers in the backyard, which make homes by burrowing into the dam. In the past, I trapped the beavers–or hired a trapper–because…

New Year, New Life

Just as today is the beginning of a new year, every day is the beginning of a new life. With every bit of added knowledge and experience–which we can acquire every day—we achieve different perspectives, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.…

Every Day is the Beginning of a New Life

Just as today is the beginning of a new year, every day is the beginning of a new life. With every bit of added knowledge and experience–which we can acquire every day–we achieve different perspectives, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.…
Love is a choice

Love is a Choice and a Feeling Freely Shared

Love is a choice and a feeling freely shared, at this season and always. Make the choice to fill your heart and life with unconditional love and freely share it – listen to Real Love today.

Live According to True and Loving Principles

Learn the true and loving principles that will bring your life and relationships the peace and happiness you desire by listening to Real Love.
Choose Gratitude

The Ultimate Choice of Gratitude

In every given moment, we have a choice to make: First, we could complain about what we don’t have, or can’t do, or don’t get from people and circumstances. This gives us a real hit of victimhood—which is why we do it—but it never,…

Happiness Is a Choice–Really

Recently I had a conversation with Laura, who was unemployed and desperate about her situation. "I didn't get that job I applied for," she said. "And?" I asked "I'm disappointed. I really wanted that job. I've tried to fight the negative…

Making Decisions in the Right Order

Tom called and said, "I simply cannot live with Lynne [his wife] anymore." "Hardly a surprise," I said. "She's been creating an illusion of studying Real Love for several years now, and yet I've never seen her genuinely listen to anyone but…
You're paying with you whole life

You're Paying with Your Whole Life

Matt called me and described how he was struggling personally and in his relationships. "Sounds like a lot of work," I said. "It is," he said. "I'm exhausted all the time." "So you're exhausted, miserable, and alone. That's the reward." "Not…
Build your foundation on a rock.

Build On A Rock

Make sure your foundations are built on the rock of Real Love. Read or listen to Real Love today.

Priorities 11-100

James owned a business, and as he got closer to retirement, he made an agreement with his son, Brandon, that would gradually increase Brandon's share in the business until he took full ownership from his father. But James said that he and Brandon…

The Hole in the Door

For years Donna and I have been regularly associated with Rita, an elderly woman in town. Because of a lifetime of poor decisions, she can't work but subsists on a meager income from disability and social security. We assist her with shopping,…

Now Is All I've Got (Video Clip)

Fully appreciate what someone gives you in the present moment and don't ruin it by worrying about the future.