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The All-Powerful Bridge Of Trust

After watching Lisa express her anger at Paul, her husband, for several minutes, I interrupted. "You don't trust him." "Sure I do," she said. "I just don't like many of the choices he makes." "You mean most of his choices." Her silence…

Always Be Loving First

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Choose First To Trust

"I just had a clerk at Walmart say....I wish the whole world could be as happy as you look right now....I owe it to Real Love." Jolene L., Alabama Trust a Certified Real Love Coach and watch as your life transforms into the happy, joyful…
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You Pay For What You Get

For many years Julie had used guilt and intimidation to control every thought, word, and behavior of her husband, Don. This is hardly an accusation, since she was doing only what she had been taught all her life by her parents and others. Regrettably,…

There Are No Little Things, Only Choices

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Your Job

Listen to these true, inspirational stories of a cop, a convict, a lawyer, a mother, a teacher, and many others who chose Real Love and completely transformed their lives. “This book has given me hope. After reading the book Real Love,…

Now We Can Learn

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Find A Compass And Map

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Drops and Waterfalls

A couple of years ago I traveled on a cruise—as part of a family reunion—to Norway, which is justifiably famous for its towering mountains and fjords. I saw more beautiful waterfalls than I could count—at least twenty that I could see…
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Why Isn't Real Love Everywhere?

Someone wrote to me, "If Real Love is so essential, then why doesn't it just occur naturally everywhere? And why has it taken this long for Real Love to be discovered? And why is it difficult to learn?" Just because something is good—or…


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Shades of Gray

I observed two people talking about making a choice in their relationships. One of them said, "There are many ways to see this. It's confusing. It's not like life is black or white. It's all shades of gray." Overall, it's not true that life…
The Roots Are Not Personal - Real Love Blog
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The Roots Are Not Personal

A few days ago it rained hard and long, causing water to accumulate in puddles here and there on our property. In one area of the woods, the water was three to four feet deep, so I decided to dig a drainage ditch from this small pond to the…
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I Didn't Mean To

One day Gerald told me that when he'd left the door of his house open earlier that day, his wife's cat had escaped outside. The cat was entirely an indoor pet, and recovering her proved to be quite an ordeal. Gerald's wife, Lisa, was angry at…

Make Your Bed

In 2014 Naval Adm. William H. McRaven delivered the commencement address at the University of Texas at Austin. Among other things—and with some editing—he said: “I have been a Navy SEAL for 36 years. Basic SEAL training is six months…
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Choose Now

The pain of our past can be eliminated only by our choices in the present. The future is often nothing but a continuation of our choices in the present. The present is all we have, so we might consider focusing entirely on what we choose to…
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Choices: A Matter of Life and Death

Not long ago a man — we’ll call him Bill — was talking to me about an argument that he’d been having with his wife, Melissa. After hearing people describe a few thousand of these conversations, I’m impressed with how similar they really…