You're paying with you whole life

You're Paying with Your Whole Life

Matt called me and described how he was struggling personally and in his relationships. "Sounds like a lot of work," I said. "It is," he said. "I'm exhausted all the time." "So you're exhausted, miserable, and alone. That's the reward." "Not…
Build your foundation on a rock.

Build On A Rock

Make sure your foundations are built on the rock of Real Love. Read or listen to Real Love today.

The Hole in the Door

For years Donna and I have been regularly associated with Rita, an elderly woman in town. Because of a lifetime of poor decisions, she can't work but subsists on a meager income from disability and social security. We assist her with shopping,…

Stop Hurting Me!

Years ago I took a group of young men on a canoe trip down a swift river. Although everyone was carefully instructed in how to safely maneuver their craft, one young man, Dean, fell out of his canoe, and we soon discovered that he had not properly…
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The Subtleties Of Power

Glenn was annoyed when he said, "Nobody listens to me." "Really?" I asked. "Give me an example." "Yesterday I wanted to go out to eat with Misty (his wife), instead of eating dinner at home." "Did you tell her you wanted to go out?" He…
The First Time You CHOOSE - Real Love Blog - Greg Baer
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The First Time You CHOOSE

Watch "Reacting Leaves No Room For Choices" and click on the cards in the video for amazing resources to help you stop reacting and start living the joyful life YOU deserve.
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Find Real Love for yourself and learn how to share it with others by reading or listening to Real Love. "Dr. Baer gets to the essence of what ails us in our personal relationships, our professional relationships, and our struggles. Real Love…
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The All-Powerful Bridge Of Trust

After watching Lisa express her anger at Paul, her husband, for several minutes, I interrupted. "You don't trust him." "Sure I do," she said. "I just don't like many of the choices he makes." "You mean most of his choices." Her silence…

Always Be Loving First

Need help? Watch "I Choose to be Loving, Because..." for some life-changing ideas.

Choose First To Trust

"I just had a clerk at Walmart say....I wish the whole world could be as happy as you look right now....I owe it to Real Love." Jolene L., Alabama Trust a Certified Real Love Coach and watch as your life transforms into the happy, joyful…
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You Pay For What You Get

For many years Julie had used guilt and intimidation to control every thought, word, and behavior of her husband, Don. This is hardly an accusation, since she was doing only what she had been taught all her life by her parents and others. Regrettably,…

There Are No Little Things, Only Choices

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Bad Behaviors

Someone wrote on Facebook: “Behaviors are neither good nor bad. They just ‘are,’ and we choose them consciously or not.” It is SO tempting to believe that there are no “bad” behaviors. We WANT to believe this, but only because…

Your Job

Listen to these true, inspirational stories of a cop, a convict, a lawyer, a mother, a teacher, and many others who chose Real Love and completely transformed their lives. “This book has given me hope. After reading the book Real Love,…
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It Depends

On uncounted occasions, I have heard people describe a difficult—often painful—situation or interaction, and then they ask, “What should I do?” I usually know something about them, so I don’t actually use the two following words…

Now We Can Learn

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Find A Compass And Map

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Make Your Bed

In 2014 Naval Adm. William H. McRaven delivered the commencement address at the University of Texas at Austin. Among other things—and with some editing—he said: “I have been a Navy SEAL for 36 years. Basic SEAL training is six months…