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Breaking the Chain of Pain

Turning your life around is heroic stuff. And it has positive effects on your children and grandchildren, breaking a chain of pain. It's gotta start with you.   https://youtu.be/psAtahFjuK0 Listen to Real Love and learn how to…

Dragging that Deadly Bag

In several African countries young boys have been recruited by rebels to fight as soldiers, who then shot their way through one village after another, usually hopped up on fear and drugs. One boy who escaped that life described running from…

Some Behaviors Need to Stop First (Video Clip)

To be more loving is a creative, growth process. But to keep that process going, some behaviors have to stop NOW. https://youtu.be/vB8uhPL1R4U
Start Over.

Starting Over

Starting over doesn't have to be daunting and you don't need to do it alone. Take advantage of the many resources at RealLove.com that are there to help you: Free Conference Call, Loving People to Talk To, Coaching, or an Intervention with Greg.…

New Year, New Life

Just as today is the beginning of a new year, every day is the beginning of a new life. With every bit of added knowledge and experience–which we can acquire every day—we achieve different perspectives, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors.…
Crisis Managment

I Need More Pots

It was obvious that my friend George was allergic to work. Giraffes could have hidden in the grass of his front yard. Outside the back door was a tall pile of garbage bags, because he was too lazy to take the trash fifty feet to the street,…
In Real Love you find a safe place.

Remove the Obstacles–Now

Throughout our backyard forest are shallow ditches that allow rainwater to drain downhill to the creek. Without them, the backyard would become a marsh, punctuated by puddles and small ponds. The many trees drop a great number of leaves all…
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The Hole in the Door

For years Donna and I have been regularly associated with Rita, an elderly woman in town. Because of a lifetime of poor decisions, she can't work but subsists on a meager income from disability and social security. We assist her with shopping,…

Finding Out who You Are (Video Clip)

You figure out who you are by getting rid of the fear. Be patient. It takes time. https://youtu.be/Nh-AHhTJ878
Overlooking our own flaws

Hoarding Death

After repeated encouragement from friends, I finally watched a reality show about people who had been diagnosed as hoarders. They fill their house and yard with everything they’ve ever owned, and eventually life becomes unlivable. Repeatedly,…

Exceeding Our Brief

Robert was dressing for a meeting where he would be speaking, and casually he turned to his wife, Julie, and asked, “Does this tie work?” She replied, “I like the red, striped one better. Here, let me help you put it on.” Later,…

Why Am I Not Changing with Real Love (Video Clip)

Real Love is uniformly powerful, but only if we genuinely trust someone to love us, and if we practice loving and being responsible. Consistently. HAPPINESS is the result. https://youtu.be/nbMC3XeM7jo

Sometimes You Have to Be Dropped on Your Head

Recently I was in a room where somebody asked what time it was. Instantly at least twenty people pulled out their cell phones to check the time. I was the only person to look at my wristwatch. I felt old, much as I do when I saddle my horse…
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You Are Not Garbage

Jerry had been studying Real Love for several months and practicing the principles with his wife, Marge. "I just keep screwing it up," Jerry said. "I know the right thing to do, but when Marge starts in with criticizing me, it's like I go…
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Jumping In Cold Water

Morgan called me to describe how unhappy he was with his life: marriage, kids, career, everything. I made some suggestions, but the next week when I talked to him, he hadn't done anything different. "I seem to remember," I said, "that you…
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Blazing A Lifegiving Path

Find and learn how to share Real Love—and help change the world—by visiting the Finding Real Love page. "Finding Real Love has quite literally transformed me, my marriage, my relationship with my children and actually - my whole life." …

Stuck Windows

One day I was in an older house without air conditioning, and we needed some cooler air from the outside. I made attempts to open several windows, but I discovered that over the years the wood had swollen unevenly, the joints were no longer…
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Preparing and Enjoying

Several years ago I met Sheila, who had recently divorced her husband, lost her job, and alienated her adult children. She studied Real Love, learned to find it and feel it, and asked me what to do next. I recommended a long series of opportunities…