Greg’s Thursday Video Clips for Members

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Children Need Love Like Air—from Birth (Video Clip)

If we don't get Real Love from a very early age, we spend the rest of our lives screaming for it–in a wide variety of ways. https://youtu.be/M_Djvjk2RZE
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The Real Power for Change Happens with Feelings (Video Clip)

If we really want to change our lives, it’s not something we can “figure out.” We have to change how we FEEL. https://youtu.be/wvGX2TkZEl4
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Kids Respond Beautifully to Real Love (Video Clip)

When we consistently apply Real Love to children’s lives, we give them order and predictability—like gravity. https://youtu.be/xwf8CwmMttE
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What Is the Purpose of Holding People? (Video Clip)

We were born to be held, and that need continues throughout our lives. It provides a transfer of love and energy that nothing else does. https://youtu.be/HEwnrdKKi2g
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There is a Risk Involved in Telling the Truth About Ourselves, But Worth It (Video Clip)

Telling the truth about our fears and flaws with loving people does have a risk—of disapproval—but it’s far less than with others, and the potential benefits are enormous. And if we never tell the truth, we will be alone. https://y…
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We Tend to Treat People in the Present as Though They Were From the Past (Video Clip)

The people we knew early in life established patterns of judgments, feelings and reactions that we continue into the present, even when they hurt us. If we want to be happy, we have to see that and change it. https://youtu.be/cc_U-De3fRY
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What Are the Obstacles to Love and Trust? (Video Clip)

We’ve all had so many painful experiences with trusting people who claim to love us, that it’s natural that we would distrust love now. https://youtu.be/2uJZ_4HgNuE
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Measure Your Progress in Larger Time Intervals (Video Clip)

It can be discouraging to measure your progress daily, with all the ups and downs. Think longer term. https://youtu.be/rYGDeVrYoUk
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The Invincibility of Feeling Loved (Video Clip)

The greatest power toward change is not guilt or obligation, but simple awareness of what is loving and happy.   https://youtu.be/9TxRPciJriI
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The Fear and Power in Saying, “You Love Me.” (Video Clip)

It’s relatively easy to tell another person, “I love you.” It’s an entirely more vulnerable and powerful experience to say, “You love me.” https://youtu.be/ba7argb9BLk
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How Long Does It Take Our Old Wounds to Heal? (Video Clip)

The excavation of old wounds can seem endless, but we really can heal and eliminate them, one by one. https://youtu.be/jeylCV7km1k  
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When We Feel Loved and Loving, We Can’t Lose (Video Clip)

Situations can seem so complicated, but we can’t lose—nor can we get lost—if we remember simply to feel loved and to be loving. https://youtu.be/5B56EX-EKF8  
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We Have to Learn How to be a True Partner (Video Clip)

We tend to blame the difficulties in our relationships on the other person, when the truth is that WE need to learn to be a loving partner. https://youtu.be/WXRGMa6mcvY
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The Magic of Being Touched in a Loving Way (Video Clip)

Being touched by someone who loves you communicates love in a way that words cannot. Find someone who can do this.   https://youtu.be/t4Ssrwk4X5c
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When We Believe the Wrong Definition of Love, We’re Dead (Video Clip)

Nearly all of us were taught the wrong definition of love, and if we believe it, despite an opportunity to learn what’s true, we cannot be happy. https://youtu.be/Eu5YkDTFxR8
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If It's Not Love, It's Fear (Video Clip)

If people don’t feel unconditionally loved, almost everything they say or do is an expression of fear. Not complicated. https://youtu.be/hkSeXqkg_8Y
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Thinking Can Be Useful, but Trusting Is Far More Powerful (Video Clip)

When we get afraid, reflexively we tend to think—a lot. We become far more powerful when we trust people, love, ourselves, and the truth. https://youtu.be/takcn9cSsds
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Let People Think on Their Own Before Giving Them Answers (Video Clip)

We tend to give people “the” answer—especially children—before allowing them to exercise their own creativity. https://youtu.be/s4dgvmW5qcU
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We Tend to See People as Problems to be Solved (Video Clip)

People want to be loved and loved some more, and occasionally taught, but not fixed like problems. https://youtu.be/cDjuF6NkjmM
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People Really Don’t Like to Be Controlled (Video Clip)

If you can learn to stop controlling the people around you, they will tend to WANT to be with you, follow you, and do business with you. https://youtu.be/0vMOnp2Vo88
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People Pleasing is an Epidemic Addiction (Video Clip)

Pleasing people is an addiction that is unusually difficult to stop, because everyone around you actually ENJOYS your addiction. https://youtu.be/L961SXvNb5c