Greg’s Thursday Video Clips for Members

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A Real Love Merry Christmas Message From An Adorable Teenager

A Merry Christmas message from an adorable teenager who is expressing her miraculous heart and feelings about Real Love. https://youtu.be/Gto6PoJTNME
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Kids Do Not Need Praise (Video Clip)

Children want your genuine interest in them and what they’re doing, not your praise for what they’re doing. https://youtu.be/uzkZky37xJI
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Do You Know What Your Children Are Learning? (Video Clip)

Parents have a strong tendency—out of fear—to abdicate their responsibility to teach their children how to be loving and responsible, and their children suffer for it. https://youtu.be/0_uUf0li4-Y
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We Create Virtual Worlds Where We Are in Control (Video Clip)

When the real world becomes painful enough, we escape to virtual worlds—video games and porn—where we can leave our pain behind. https://youtu.be/7zkr_o_6iEo
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Manipulating People for Attention (Video Clip)

Sometimes in Real Love settings, we manipulate people for Imitation Love instead of allowing the Real Love we need. https://youtu.be/7M1Bi6kMHvY
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Genuine Safety is Found only in NOT Protecting Ourselves (Video Clip)

When we’re afraid, we naturally pick up weapons to protect ourselves, but never has that resulted in happiness. We have to bury our weapons to feel truly safe. https://youtu.be/F5b51HzYvSs
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We Cannot Keep Doing the Same Thing and Get Different Results (Video Clip)

In order to genuinely change our lives, we must be willing to give up pretty much everything we ever thought we knew. https://youtu.be/lqiv0bqY6HM
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We All Want Our Wounds to Heal, but Without Pain (Video Clip)

There is no way to heal from the wounds of our life without pain, but trusting makes the pain much, much less. https://youtu.be/zHTP_br2X4o
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What Can You Look for in a Wise Person? (Video Clip)

Being a true wise person means feeling loved, being loving, and being fearless. https://youtu.be/QRN-pf70SiI
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When We're Afraid, What We Need Most is to Trust (Video Clip)

When we fail to trust, we make it impossible to learn, grow, and find rich relationships. https://youtu.be/1TRTrkR03Zc
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When We're Afraid, We Lose the Ability to Choose (Video Clip)

When we’re afraid, we are captives and lost. Only as we lose our fear can we make true choices. https://youtu.be/uy84ENeqlDk
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We Have to Let Our Partners Be Themselves (Video Clip)

Oh, the temptation to control our partners is strong, but when we try to control them, our relationship is in big trouble. https://youtu.be/EbwA_YbvFu0
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What are the Best Techniques in Real Love? (Video Clip)

Real Love is a genuine decision, feeling, and behavior. There is no technique that can successfully simulate such love for long. https://youtu.be/i1jh2EqWxPw
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What Does It Mean to Really Matter? (Video Clip)

If only one person loves you unconditionally, it proves your worth and your lovability. https://youtu.be/xJbwrD8Kd0E
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Do We Really Love Our Kids? (Video Clip)

We love to claim we love our kids, but rarely is that true—at least not unconditionally. But we can learn, if we never give up. https://youtu.be/-9XYuD13TCM
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How Do Children Learn to Control Their Parents and Everything Else? (Video Clip)

More and more, children are becoming their own parents, controlling their own lives and their parents’ lives. How does this happen? What can we do? https://youtu.be/lfH7Gj3jlVk
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It Is NOT a Mystery Why People Do Bad Things (Video Clip)

We seem to be endlessly puzzled why people do bad things, and until we know why, the solutions will elude us. But we DO know why: It’s about the pain. https://youtu.be/K21aCVNk_7U
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What is the Real Cause of all the Pain in the World? (Video Clip)

We frenetically chase an endless list of problems—violence, drugs, the misbehavior of children and adults—while failing to address the real cause of all of them. https://youtu.be/m3gjALkJVTM
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Any Form of Pain Reduction Keeps Us in Pain (Video Clip)

In order to eliminate our pain—and to discover who we are—we must stop treating the pain with addictive behaviors and address the real cause of the pain. https://youtu.be/B8jOR0d6UkU
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We Are All Addicted to Something (Video Clip)

We are all addicted to whatever substance or behavior temporarily decreases the pain we feel from not having enough Real Love. https://youtu.be/0A4dCDxheK8
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The Source of All the Pain in Our Lives is Not Complicated (Video Clip)

In psychology and self-help, the causes of our pain and unproductive behaviors are described in very complicated ways. Wrong. “I don’t love you” is our primary wound. https://youtu.be/oLchElz8YKk