Greg’s Thursday Video Clips for Members

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The Need for the Death of Compliments (Video Clip)

Complimenting a child increases his anxiety, not his self-worth. https://youtu.be/2I971lx482w Learn how to talk to a child without praise and watch his confidence and love of life grow. Listen to Real Love in Parenting.  
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Some Behaviors Need to Stop First (Video Clip)

To be more loving is a creative, growth process. But to keep that process going, some behaviors have to stop NOW. https://youtu.be/vB8uhPL1R4U
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How to Communicate with a Controller (Video Clip)

There is a time and way for helping your partner become aware of being a controller. Planning ahead WITH your partner is the key. https://youtu.be/OLuNspez_wE
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Alternative to Compliments and Praise (Video clip)

Let a child simply share their enjoyment of a task or subject with you rather than praising them. They will grow in confidence instead of feeling assessed...again. https://youtu.be/HWR3iHNGOi4
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Everybody Loves Differently (Video Clip)

Recognize that others love you differently than you love them and feel empowered by their love. https://youtu.be/dwyyf14pxqc
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The Dangers of Praise (Video Clip)

Children will confuse praise with what makes them lovable, often times with disastrous results. "I love you" is what they really need to hear. https://youtu.be/pT3x1t1jqPU
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Start Over with the Help of Someone You trust (Video Clip)

Make sense of your current confusion and pain, not by picking over the past, but by starting over with someone you completely trust. https://youtu.be/KAfFAhgPcVM
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Asking Clearly, with Love (Video Clip)

When there is something you wish your partner was doing with you, ask them clearly, with love. https://youtu.be/m8xIInf0GHQ
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The More You See, the More You SEE (Video Clip)

Learning the Real Love principles REALLY opens your eyes about yourself. https://youtu.be/tNtK08jaaZ4
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How Are You Feeling? (Video Clip)

Responding to this question with “fine” or “OK” is a knee jerk reaction for most of us. Learn how to help others tap into how they are REALLY feeling. https://youtu.be/EWrvj2l-zU0
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Remember the Relief of a Single Moment (Video Clip)

You can't take away a loved one's emotional pain but you CAN help them remember a moment when they felt loved, accepted and relieved. https://youtu.be/xp9BSVrrfOg
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Find Your Gifts (Video Clip)

All of our differences are gifts, not traits to be compared or criticized. https://youtu.be/1EnvzZyIyyw
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Wrong vs. Bad (Video Clip)

Most of us have been taught all our lives that we have done everything wrong. The next logical conclusion is that we are therefore bad. Wrong. Again. https://youtu.be/p9FfNYmc8qo
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Anger is Always Wrong (Video Clip)

There are no exceptions to this rule. Living by it will transform your life. Are you having trouble giving up your anger? Schedule an intervention and experience life without anger - ever. https://youtu.be/1hb2ZMZBTto
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There Are No Expectations in Unconditional Love (Video Clip)

When our expectations aren't met, our usual response is anger, irritation, disappointment - you get the picture. Watch this video clip and learn how to change your perspective and live a peaceful, loving life. Then share it with a loved one…
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The Four Things You Must Avoid to Feel Loved (Video Clip)

It takes a life time to learn to love unconditionally but there are four things you need to avoid from the start. https://youtu.be/cXYpDCUEgas
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Why It’s Easier to Love a New Person than Your Spouse (Video Clip)

How to tell the difference between Unconditional Love and love that isn’t unconditional. https://youtu.be/SJa6t6ZacO0
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Why Do Relationships Fail

Relationships don’t fail because of addictions. https://youtu.be/UT__QNISajE
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How to Engage Kids in Activities (Video Clip)

When you are the Parent, have a plan. You are the Cruise Director. https://youtu.be/zIx-MpjKNGs  
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Addictions are a Response to Pain (Video Clip)

We become addicted to anything that temporarily decreases our pain. https://youtu.be/U0zBN964_Ho