How Do You Respond to Someone who Resists Loving and Teaching (Video Clip)

Many people adore being loved and petted, but that alone is not enough to create growth and happiness. How can we loveANDteach people who resist? https://youtu.be/qf1RMMubEa0

The Rules Of A Happy Relationship/Home

Learn how to have the genuinely happy relationships and life you've always wanted by watching The Essentials of Real Love DVDs. "I've read all the books and heard all the great speakers, but Greg just blew me away! Real Love is the missing…

What If My Partner Refuses to Practice Real Love? (Video Clip)

In some relationships, only one partner chooses to practice Real Love. On many occasions, that can still work—depending on the Key. https://youtu.be/BKtrcjMdq3c

The All-Powerful Bridge Of Trust

After watching Lisa express her anger at Paul, her husband, for several minutes, I interrupted. "You don't trust him." "Sure I do," she said. "I just don't like many of the choices he makes." "You mean most of his choices." Her silence…

Loving With vs Loving Despite

On many occasions people have asked me how you can love somebody despite their being angry, or selfish, or stupid, or whatever. The problem here is typified by the use of the word “despite.” If I claim to love you despite your flaws: *…

Are You Listening?

Learn how to truly listen to and love the people you care about by practicing on a Free Real Love Conference Call here.  

The Greatest Gift

Learn how to truly love the people you care about by reading or listening to Real Love. "This book is a benchmark event in our understanding of relationships. It takes real genius to explain relationships simply, in a way everyone can understand.…

It’s Not About Forgiving

Suzanne called and said, “I’ve been doing Real Love for a while now. I’m happier, more peaceful. Stressful events simply don’t stress me out as they once did. My relationships with family members are all better.” “But—” I…

Out of Control

The phrase “out of control” generally has a bad reputation. Riding a horse who is “out of control” is usually associated with unpleasant results. Investors tend to avoid a stock market that is out of control. When fires rage out of…

The Island

All around us rage the storms—of people, circumstances, and more. Sometimes, to make it far more complicated, the storms are blowing while we’re drowning in the middle of the ocean. Often we can’t control the storms, but we can always…

Love is a Choice

Kendra wrote me a two-page letter telling me what terrible situations her son was in: using drugs, homeless, unwilling to find a job, and on and on. The email began with, “I just spoke with Jack [the son], and our conversation was so upsetting.” Although…

Always Be Loving First

Need help? Watch "I Choose to be Loving, Because..." for some life-changing ideas. https://youtu.be/e5qOR4qnT5o

Changing the Subject

Heather was talking to her husband, Adam, and said, “I feel like we don’t do anything together.” “But I do lots of stuff with you,” Adam said, and he began to name some activities they had shared in recent days and weeks. I was…

Expectations Are Exhausting (Video Clip)

We often get tired of being around people because we are constantly analyzing their expectations and trying to meet them. Whew, what a drag. https://youtu.be/tjkkuwmV1G4