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I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest

A couple called me and described their family. The two of them often bitterly quarreled. The children were in various kinds of trouble at school and otherwise. Not infrequently, the father hit his children and his wife. This was a family in…
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We Are Surrounded by Love Without Limits

Not feeling surrounded by love? Learn how to free yourself of fear, confusion and past pain so that you CAN feel the love that surrounds you. Listen to Real Love and PCSD and transform your life.
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Confident About the Things that Really Matter

Feel the confidence that comes from filling your life with the things that really matter. Listen to Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships today.    
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Lost in the Jungle

I once lived in the islands of Samoa, isolated in the vast stretches of the South Pacific, five hundreds miles from the nearest neighbor. One day I climbed the dirt road up a mountain, and looking for a bit of adventure, I walked into the jungle…
Believing that you can find Real Love

The Laziness of Skepticism

As I was talking to a man about Real Love and its effects, he expressed many doubts. He'd never seen it. He didn't believe it existed. How could it be what I described? His objections were many, but he didn't say a single word about what he…
Fill Your Life with Unconditional Love

Love is a River

Unconditional love–or Real Love–is a river that flows throughout the universe and gives life to everything it touches. I am not being metaphorical here. This energy is literal, even palpable. All things are united by the flow of this river,…
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Controlling Someone vs. Illustrating Wiser Choices

Have you ever been accused of being "controlling" but you thought you were just helping someone? Read or listen to Real Love and learn the difference. It will bring peace to your life and to the lives of your loved ones.    

Pulled From The Mud

I received the following story from a friend who is a veterinarian for large animals: "Toward the end of a long day of working in the rain, I pulled up to the old wooden farmhouse. An elderly man came out, pointed toward the barn, and said,…

Where To Get Love

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Acting From Faith

We are ALWAYS acting from faith. The only question is what we have faith IN, which is demonstrated by every choice we make. When we’re angry, controlling, and complaining, we’re believing that this will make us happier. When we finally give…


Free yourself from victimhood and experience the joy that comes from feeling unconditionally loved by reading Real Love and Freedom for the Soul here.    

Real Leadership

Learn how to be a true leader in all areas of your life by reading Real Love in the Workplace.    
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Were You Kind?

Watch this video for an inspirational example of how to truly love and accept the people in your life. https://youtu.be/uyl-36VuoUg

We Need A Little Crazy

At a very young age Temple Grandin was diagnosed with autism. She could not relate to the feelings of other people and often became overwhelmed by noises and other changes in her environment. Most people considered her a cripple, but her mother…

Loving With vs Loving Despite

On many occasions people have asked me how you can love somebody despite their being angry, or selfish, or stupid, or whatever. The problem here is typified by the use of the word “despite.” If I claim to love you despite your flaws: *…

The Ultimate Gift

Rarely do people seek what they NEED, but instead settle for what they WANT, which will only briefly entertain or pacify them. With Real Love we offer the ultimate gift, although not often can they understand or accept it. Find Real Love…
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Learn what Imitation Love is and how you can replace it with Real Love here.    

It’s in the Delivery

I talked by Skype to John and Julie and asked them how they were doing. “All she ever does is criticize me,” he said, obviously unhappy. “Give me a specific example,” I said. John described how earlier that day she had come…
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There are many people who keep expanding the drama in their lives until you find yourself onstage in their crazy play. You do not have to accept the invitation to play a part. Choose to stay in the audience, or—often better—to calmly walk…
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Why Partnerships Fail

We find partners in the hope that they will heal our wounds and make us happy. But they are not equipped to do that, and when we discover this—which we refused to see from the beginning—our partnerships fail. Learn how to have the unconditionally…