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Half Measures Usually Do Not Lead to Half Results

Real Love Requires Great Faith Real Love requires great faith. Complete faith. Without it, we trust no one and connect with no one. With half measures–half faith, which is our custom–we get no connection and no love, either to receive or…
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Don't Ignore the Darkness Within You

Don’t ignore the darkness within you, nor regret it or be ashamed of it. It informs you of the position of the sun. Listen to Real Love and learn how to live life fully.
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Breaking the Chain of Pain

Turning your life around is heroic stuff. And it has positive effects on your children and grandchildren, breaking a chain of pain. It's gotta start with you.   https://youtu.be/psAtahFjuK0 Listen to Real Love and learn how to…
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What to Do with a Difficult Child (Video Clip)

What can you do with a difficult child? Start looking inward. https://youtu.be/19RUeyIZgFo Listen to Real Love in Parenting and learn how to raise happy, responsible and loving children.
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We CAN Choose Whether or Not our Time is Filled with Joy

With Real Love as our guide, we can begin to heal the wounds of our past, create rewarding and fulfilling relationships in every area of our lives and choose whether or not our time is filled with joy.
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Let's Stick with NOW (Video Clip)

When dealing with people who are displaying signs of "victimhood", don't let them bring up the past. Only deal with how they are feeling NOW. https://youtu.be/EC-rr_xYTm0 Read Real Love and Freedom for the Soul and help a friend, loved…
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We Cling to the Justifications of Our Anger

We cling to the justifications of our anger with a desperate stubbornness, because otherwise we’d have to deal with the overwhelming pain that underlies it. Break the cycles of expectation and disappointment that make your life so hard.…
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Gratitude Means Realizing We Have Enough

Gratitude means realizing that right now I have more of what really matters than ever before, no matter how difficult this moment might be. Transform your fear and confusion to peace, happiness, and gratitude by filling it with Real Love.…
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You Are Such an Idiot! (Finally)

How Real Love Transformed a Marriage Veronica called to share with me an interaction she'd had the night before with her husband, Dan. For years their relationship had been a series of unpleasant interactions distinguished by anger, victimhood,…
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The Only Person You Can Change is You (Video Clip)

What can you do when a family member is unable to love you? Watch this video clip from a seminar and learn how to find peace with this situation. https://youtu.be/nInq1djiqQg There can be peace and happiness in your life when you realize…
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Solve the Problem

In a relationship, anything that consistently gets between you as an issue—money, sex, kids, whatever—is the thing that will end you. Solve the problem. Now. Solve the problem, get rid of those walls and enjoy a fulfilling relationship.…
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Anger Never Works As Well As Loving

What's Really Happening When Anger Seems to Work Last week I posted a blog about establishing a personal zero tolerance for anger. Click here to read that blog. I should have anticipated—but did not—a question that would naturally follow…
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Just Keep Loving Them (Video Clip)

Do you wish you could hear more from your kids? Just keep loving them. Watch this:   https://youtu.be/-evab50j31M Listen to Real Love in Parenting and get more insights into how to have a loving relationship with your children,…
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Put Loving Before Thinking

Loving and thinking are both necessary. The results will be far more profitable—for us and for others if we consistently put loving before thinking. Fill your mind with loving, grateful and generous thoughts so that you will be ready…
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I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest

A couple called me and described their family. The two of them often bitterly quarreled. The children were in various kinds of trouble at school and otherwise. Not infrequently, the father hit his children and his wife. This was a family in…
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Connect with the Love That Banishes All Fear

Need help connecting with the love that will banish your fears? Start replacing your fear and confusion with peace and happiness by listening to Real Love, The truth about finding unconditional love & fulfilling relationships. Put into practice…
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You Can Feel Relieved and Loved (Video Clip)

Nobody can take from you the fact that you are utterly delightful. https://youtu.be/VAbhPapLDu8 Feel relieved and loved. Learn how by watching the Essentials of Real Love DVDs.
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Fear of Mistakes Makes You Forget Who You Really Are

When we get caught up in our fear of the mistakes of this moment, we forget that we are in the midst of an eternal and unknowably grand experience. Learn how to live without the fear of mistakes. Enjoy the peaceful and abundant life you were…
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Loving Other People More Than Ourselves

On many occasions I’ve heard people propose the idea that we should love other people more than ourselves. On the surface, this sounds like a potentially attractive idea. When people hear it, they almost uniformly nod their heads in deep…
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A Single New & True Thought Can Change Your Life

With a single new and true thought, you can change your life and the people around you. Find new and true thought in Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships. Listen to it here.
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The Mountain Stream Allegory (Video Clip)

Become a conduit so that you can love others without getting drained. https://youtu.be/CmnSf_h6EUk Fill your life with peace and happiness. Learn how love others AND practice what you learn. Listen to The Essentials of Real Love and…