Pearl Fryar

Only Love Destroys Hate

In 1976, as documented in a movie starring himself, a man named Pearl moved to Bishopville, South Carolina, where old concepts of bigotry and segregation were quite alive. He and his wife bought a house in an all-white neighborhood, where…
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How to Stop the Whining

Do You Have a Child Who Whines or Cries? You CAN Learn How to Stop It—Immediately Watch this short video and learn to stop your child's whining. Are you not crazy tired of hearing that awful noise that pierces the walls and drills into…
Small black siblings fighting over digital tablet in the living room.

Do You Dread Spring Break with Your Children?

You Can Hear the Whining, Arguing, and Anger Already Do you dread Spring Break with your children? Can you hear the whining and arguing already? Learn how you can change it all and really enjoy the break with your kids. A few days ago I was…
Daughter and mother show love and confidence in their relationship.

As a Parent, Do You Have Spring Break Anxiety?

Parenting with Confidence During Spring Break Are you feeling anxious about the next impending Spring Break? Does the complaining and protesting make you feel tired and smaller already? Learn how you can become confident as a ‘parent…
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I'm Shivering on Mt. Everest

A couple called me and described their family. The two of them often bitterly quarreled. The children were in various kinds of trouble at school and otherwise. Not infrequently, the father hit his children and his wife. This was a family in…
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We Are Surrounded by Love Without Limits

Not feeling surrounded by love? Learn how to free yourself of fear, confusion and past pain so that you CAN feel the love that surrounds you. Listen to Real Love and PCSD and transform your life.
What really matters

Confident About the Things that Really Matter

Feel the confidence that comes from filling your life with the things that really matter. Listen to Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships today.    
Stay on the safe path

Lost in the Jungle

I once lived in the islands of Samoa, isolated in the vast stretches of the South Pacific, five hundreds miles from the nearest neighbor. One day I climbed the dirt road up a mountain, and looking for a bit of adventure, I walked into the jungle…
Believing that you can find Real Love

The Laziness of Skepticism

As I was talking to a man about Real Love and its effects, he expressed many doubts. He'd never seen it. He didn't believe it existed. How could it be what I described? His objections were many, but he didn't say a single word about what he…
Fill Your Life with Unconditional Love

Love is a River

Unconditional love–or Real Love–is a river that flows throughout the universe and gives life to everything it touches. I am not being metaphorical here. This energy is literal, even palpable. All things are united by the flow of this river,…
Controlling someone or helping them wisely.
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Controlling Someone vs. Illustrating Wiser Choices

Have you ever been accused of being "controlling" but you thought you were just helping someone? Read or listen to Real Love and learn the difference. It will bring peace to your life and to the lives of your loved ones.    

Pulled From The Mud

I received the following story from a friend who is a veterinarian for large animals: "Toward the end of a long day of working in the rain, I pulled up to the old wooden farmhouse. An elderly man came out, pointed toward the barn, and said,…
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Eating With The Chickens

A mother eagle failed to return to her nest, where a single hatchling screamed for his supper. Eventually he jumped from the nest and fell to the forest floor, where a chicken found him and took him home to her barnyard. The young eagle,…
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A Real Love Merry Christmas Message From An Adorable Teenager

A Merry Christmas message from an adorable teenager who is expressing her miraculous heart and feelings about Real Love.
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God Is Love

God is love. The universe is powered by the flow of love. If you encounter an unloving experience, it is an EXCEPTION to the beauty and harmony of the universe, not proof to the contrary. When you remember that, bumps remain bumps instead of…

Same Stories

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The Thrill of True Freedom

Experience the thrill of true freedom today by reading Real Love and Freedom for the Soul here.  

Knowledge vs. Ability

Louis called me and said, "I just can't believe I keep doing this." "Doing what?" I asked. "I've read the marriage book. I've read several of the other Real Love books too, and I've been working at this for months now, but I keep getting…

Facing Opposition

You CAN heal the pain of the past and grow your new, stronger feathers and start living the joyous life you deserve by reading Real Love and PCSD here.  
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Without Sufficient Real Love

Watching two people without sufficient Real Love as they interact in a relationship is like watching two ticks trying to suck blood from each other. Find Real Love for yourself and learn how to have the fulfilling relationships you've always…