Entries by Greg Baer

Rome Real Love Retreat

Can you really change the effects of a lifetime of never having unconditional love? It is possible, but not just with books and DVDs. You'll need loving people to change the way you feel. Consider joining this deeply connecting and healing experience at the Rome Real Love Retreat, November 16-17, 2018. Only 5 tickets left. Get your tickets here. "These […]

We Are All Unique

We ARE all unique. We don't have to prove ourselves to be loveable. Read or listen to Real Love, The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships today to learn how to stop proving to the world that you are loveable. Feel the peace and happiness you were always meant to feel.

Muscle Memory

My son Joseph is a professional singer and dancer. I've watched him perform on many occasions, and frankly I'm baffled at how he can move expertly around the stage for an entire number with apparent ease. Each show comprises hundreds of individual moves linked together in choreographic phrases, much like musical or literary phrases. To […]

How Can I Help My Ex?

Janelle sat in the chair across from me and said she wanted to talk about her recent divorce. "I feel bad about my ex-husband," she said. "Since the divorce he's been really depressed. I worry that he could even do something crazy. His father killed himself years ago when his wife left him." "Why did […]


You’re Paying with Your Whole Life

Matt called me and described how he was struggling personally and in his relationships. "Sounds like a lot of work," I said. "It is," he said. "I'm exhausted all the time." "So you're exhausted, miserable, and alone. That's the reward." "Not much of a reward." "No, but that's what you've got nonetheless. And for that […]

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Pushing the Boulder

I talked to a woman, Ilene, who was utterly overwhelmed with the responsibility of controlling her children, bossing her husband around, and worrying about everything. "You look exhausted, honey," I said. "I'm worn out." "Like you're pushing a boulder up a hill that never ends." "Yeah, that's what it feels like." "And if that weren't […]


You’re Never Alone

Not sure that somebody loves you? Click here for a list of Certified Real Love Coaches and Wise Men eager to help you find the Real Love that will transform your life today. "Thank you, thank you, thank you. I was struggling last week with some issues that I was experiencing with my oldest daughter. I was […]

The Frowny Face Button

My eight-year-old granddaughter, Megan, is an irrepressible fountain of energy and intelligence, often expressed with a need to challenge everything. It's actually a delightful combination of traits, but on occasion some people do find her endless vitality somewhat less charming than I do. The other day I received an email from my daughter, Rachel, who […]


The Pacific Slide

Every day I talk to several people who are experiencing serious conflict in their primary relationship. In nearly every case the couple was initially in love, but over time the "in love" feeling slipped away, becoming a distant–often painful–memory. What happens? Look at the verb associated with romance: We "fall" in love. Falling doesn't take […]


Real Love Retreat Nov 9-10

Come transform your life at the November 9-10 Real Love Weekend Retreat here. What Weekend Retreat participants are saying: Greg and the Real Love retreat has changed my life in such fundamental ways, it will never be the same...I will never be the same. Thank God. Carollee M., Huntington Beach, California   These retreats REALLY […]