Entries by Greg Baer

The Complete Insanity of Fear

I've been having lower back pain for more than a year, and I didn't see a doctor because I have an admittedly foolish tendency to hope that physical symptoms will just go away–as most do. Finally, though, I noticed that my left big toe was becoming more and more numb, which would indicate that there […]

Faith in Love

Listen to Real Love, The truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships to learn how to increase your faith in the love you already have.

A Time-Out for You

A few days ago I was talking to my son Mike on the phone, and he described an interaction with his two children, Sydney, six years old, and Jack, four. In the next room, Mike heard Sydney steadily elevating the tone and volume of her voice as she spoke to Jack. They've both received considerable […]

Your Own Freedom

Achieve your own freedom. Until you allow everyone the freedom to dislike you and disagree with you, you will not have your own freedom. Learn how. Read Real Love and Freedom for the Soul today.  


Every day I talk with people whose lives are riddled with fear and behaviors that make love impossible – either to give or receive. Almost invariably, they describe the actions of other people – or sometimes situations – that have CAUSED their feelings and behaviors. If George is angry, for example, it is BECAUSE Sandra […]

Don’t Let Your House Explode

A few years ago, a satellite TV company aired a commercial that made me chuckle. The announcer says: "When you have cable and your picture freezes, you get irritable." "When you get irritable your work suffers." A man in a suit is shown at his desk, opposite what is presumed to be a client of […]

Rome Real Love Retreat

Can you really change the effects of a lifetime of never having unconditional love? It is possible, but not just with books and DVDs. You'll need loving people to change the way you feel. Consider joining this deeply connecting and healing experience at the Rome Real Love Retreat, March 29-30, 2019. Get your tickets here. "These retreats REALLY ARE […]

Anger is Destructive

Anger is one of the most divisive and destructive forces in relationships. We need to better understand the cause and nature of anger and thereby gain the ability to eliminate it. Fortunately, in recent years we have acquired an understanding of anger that has given us the ability to do just that. Read "Beyond Anger Management" […]

Keep Loving

Keep loving and find the love you need by talking to other loving people. Join a Free Conference Call with a Real Love coach here.

16 Ways to Say “I Love You”

Although most of us thirst to hear the words I love you, they can also be unsettling — even frightening — because in the past these words have been associated with experiences that were not entirely pleasant. It’s very common for people to say I love you in order to get something they want in […]

Genuine Evidence of Love

I love you” feels great to hear. Seeing genuine evidence of “I understand you and love you” feels even better. Fill your life with genuine evidence of love. Listen to Real Love in Marriage and learn how to genuinely love and understand your spouse. Fill your life with joy.

Stealing Love

Margaret arrived at my home with her husband, Blake. Over the course of their twelve years together, she had emotionally shared herself in inappropriate ways—frequent texting, sharing of deep feelings, phone calls, furtive hugs and kisses, and so on—with several men. All this distraction was negatively affecting her family relationships—with Blake and their three children. […]

How Can You Love Me?

Love without a reason is very powerful and very freeing. And totally real. Learn how to love someone without a reason by listening to Real Love, the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships.