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Newbie in a loop

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Topic: Newbie in a loop
Posted By: Weston
Subject: Newbie in a loop
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2010 at 11:59am
I seem to be in a bit of a loop.

Heading home I make a commitment to myself to try and see how I can be more loving in the relationship. Then (sometimes) something comes up where I don't feel unconditionally loving towards my partner at a time where I don't have access to others that might provide me with the support I need. (Not to mention the fact that I seem to be having trouble finding those people to begin with...but that's another topic)

What exactly do I do then?


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Posted By: rlpkaren
Date Posted: 20 Aug 2010 at 6:29pm
Hello Weston.  Your problem is common and just deciding that you'll be "more loving" by the use of will power doesn't work very well, as you are seeing.  I sympathize and I understand and that won't help you at the end of the day.  "Sometimes" stuff comes up means that you feel loving when nobody is stealing $2 from you (to quote Greg's book). 
 
Get yourself onto the free conference calls, from there get lists of people to contact so you can start telling the truth about your G&Ps to others. Truth - Seen - Accepted - Loved.  I'm really sorry to tell you that there's no other way to get to and stay in a loving place.
 
With Real Love,
KarenH
Certified Real Love Coach


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