~ Aloha Real Love Family,
I'd like to post these up as a reminder:
is not complicated:
* Love them
* Teach them
* Have faith
* Occasionally apply consequences
The First Principle of
More than anything else,
my child or whomever
needs to feel loved.
The Second Principle of
When my child or whomever
behaves badly, he or she
doesn't feel loved.
The Third Principle of
When I'm angry, I'm wrong.
The Fourth Principle of
I can't give what I don't have
I must find Real Love for myself.
The Fifth Principle of
My child or whomever needs
to be loved & taught.
The Sixth Principle of
After my child or whomever has
been loved and taught, he
or she must be loved & taught again.
The Seventh Principle of
~ The Law of Choice ~
The Eight Principle of
~ Happiness comes from being Loving ~
The Ninth Principle of:
~ Happiness comes from being Responsible ~
* Never applied in anger
* Goal is to inconvenience & motivate
* Natural (result of choice made)
* Discussed beforehand
I'll be the first to admit that I need these reminders.
I am constantly going through my "Pearls" on a daily basis.
By posting them, I also have them handy here, too.
I need to remember that Unconditional Love flows
downward from the parent to the child-never from the
child to the parent. If your child loves you unconditionally
accept that as a gift and learn what it is that they know
so that you may become more loving & happier, too.
Parenting is measured by the love your children feel,
the example you are leaving for them to follow and
pass on as well. Love & teach, then love & teach them again.
~ Sincerely Robin ~
~ I'm the one to call when you are ready to tell the TRUTH about it all~ 808-494-1505