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Other than the cards that are available in the store, is there anywhere I could get a list of the 54 Pearls?

You can get an email each Monday on the Pearls and Principals. There is also a Monday night call that talks about them. I find them very helpful.

I was wondering something. Are the grey boxes in the book Real Love the pearls? If I were to count them, would there be 54 of them?

Here is one of the emails I got. The conference call in on Monday nights at 9:00pm The number is (712)432-00180 and the code is 776868#. Hope to see you on the calls.

Happy Monday!

Hope your week was peaceful and that you were able to make choices that brought you happiness! Remember, each of us must find Real Love for ourselves. There's help and support along the way, but we must do the work to make it happen in our lives.

Tonight's Pearl:  Happiness Comes from Being Responsible [consistently!]

The last couple of weeks, we've talked about how important the "responsibility" leg of the happiness stool is. We talked about how taking care of our responsibilities leads to less stress, and taking responsibility to make choices that lead us to feeling loved and being able tolove others is key to creating more happiness is our lives. All of this is true, and there's another component that's vitally important. We have to do these things consistently andwholeheartedly.

"Dabbling" in Real Love won't bring us the changes we seek. Just as dabbling in learning to play the piano won't make us a great (or even good) pianist. It takes really jumping in and taking the risk to do something entirely unfamiliar and scary. Something that goes entirely against what the world shows us, and what we've been taught. Like making that call to another person and admitting we don't know what to say, but we know we're feeling alone and afraid. Like being willing to share the truth of who we are on a conference call or in a group, when we've never done it before. Being willing to really practice and live the principles, not just read or think or talk about them.

If you really want to change the way life works for you, you will have to do something different than what you've always done. (After all, that's what got you where you are!) And the more consistently you do it, the more powerful (and quick) the changes will be.

If you feel like you've been around Real Love for a while, but you haven't felt a lot of changes in your life, perhaps it's time to take a look at what you're holding on to and what you haven't been willing to do. Are you still giving up being happy for being right?

Check in question:   "On a scale of 1-10; how much effort are you putting into really living Real Love?"

Edited by rlpkaren - 22 Sep 2011 at 8:52am

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redrose68 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 31 Jul 2011 Location: 85032 Online Status: Offline Posts: 11	Post Options Post Reply Quote redrose68 Report Post Quote Reply Topic: Pearls Posted: 06 Aug 2011 at 12:50am
	Other than the cards that are available in the store, is there anywhere I could get a list of the 54 Pearls?

rlpkaren Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Real Love Coach Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Location: Virgnia USA Online Status: Offline Posts: 708	Post Options Post Reply Quote rlpkaren Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 06 Aug 2011 at 9:38am
	Not that I know of. That's where I got mine. Love, KarenH
	Learn from your mistakes and recognize that everything in life can be used as a lesson once you are willing to be teachable.

Sharrfick1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 04 May 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 39	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sharrfick1 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 07 Aug 2011 at 7:27am
	You can get an email each Monday on the Pearls and Principals. There is also a Monday night call that talks about them. I find them very helpful.

Sharrfick1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 04 May 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 39	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sharrfick1 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 07 Aug 2011 at 7:54am
	oh, and I just discovered, if you go to the forum, there is a section on the Pearls and Princilples that list them. You could write them down on index cards and make your own cards. I hope that helps.

redrose68 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 31 Jul 2011 Location: 85032 Online Status: Offline Posts: 11	Post Options Post Reply Quote redrose68 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 10 Aug 2011 at 8:21pm
	I was wondering something. Are the grey boxes in the book Real Love the pearls? If I were to count them, would there be 54 of them?

Sharrfick1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 04 May 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 39	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sharrfick1 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 12 Aug 2011 at 7:41am
	I don't know if the gray boxes in The Real Love book are the pearls. I listened to the book on CD. But if you email JoAnne at pearlsandprinciples@gmail.com and give her your email address she will start sending you a principle each week before her call. It has the principle and some really good stuff to think about around that principle. Hope this helps. I will look through some of my emails and see if I can copy and paste you one on here so you can see what the emails look like. Sharron

Sharrfick1 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 04 May 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 39	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sharrfick1 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 12 Aug 2011 at 7:46am
	Here is one of the emails I got. The conference call in on Monday nights at 9:00pm The number is (712)432-00180 and the code is 776868#. Hope to see you on the calls. Happy Monday! Hope your week was peaceful and that you were able to make choices that brought you happiness! Remember, each of us must find Real Love for ourselves. There's help and support along the way, but we must do the work to make it happen in our lives. Tonight's Pearl: Happiness Comes from Being Responsible [consistently!] The last couple of weeks, we've talked about how important the "responsibility" leg of the happiness stool is. We talked about how taking care of our responsibilities leads to less stress, and taking responsibility to make choices that lead us to feeling loved and being able tolove others is key to creating more happiness is our lives. All of this is true, and there's another component that's vitally important. We have to do these things consistently andwholeheartedly. "Dabbling" in Real Love won't bring us the changes we seek. Just as dabbling in learning to play the piano won't make us a great (or even good) pianist. It takes really jumping in and taking the risk to do something entirely unfamiliar and scary. Something that goes entirely against what the world shows us, and what we've been taught. Like making that call to another person and admitting we don't know what to say, but we know we're feeling alone and afraid. Like being willing to share the truth of who we are on a conference call or in a group, when we've never done it before. Being willing to really practice and live the principles, not just read or think or talk about them. If you really want to change the way life works for you, you will have to do something different than what you've always done. (After all, that's what got you where you are!) And the more consistently you do it, the more powerful (and quick) the changes will be. If you feel like you've been around Real Love for a while, but you haven't felt a lot of changes in your life, perhaps it's time to take a look at what you're holding on to and what you haven't been willing to do. Are you still giving up being happy for being right? Check in question: "On a scale of 1-10; how much effort are you putting into really living Real Love?" Edited by rlpkaren - 22 Sep 2011 at 8:52am