I have a question from the DVD

   From the real Essensials of real love DVD module 3 Greg says: "You listen to people when they get into an animated conversation, the more animated they are, the more absolutely certain you can be that they are talking about somebody else."

What does this sentence really mean? I didnt really get clear picture of what he was talking about when he said "animated".

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DeathereX Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 21 Jun 2011 Location: Norway Online Status: Offline Posts: 29	Post Options Post Reply Quote DeathereX Report Post Quote Reply Topic: I have a question from the DVD Posted: 12 Jul 2011 at 9:19pm
	From the real Essensials of real love DVD module 3 Greg says: "You listen to people when they get into an animated conversation, the more animated they are, the more absolutely certain you can be that they are talking about somebody else." What does this sentence really mean? I didnt really get clear picture of what he was talking about when he said "animated". Sølve

Inge Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List New Member Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Location: SF Bay Area Online Status: Offline Posts: 9	Post Options Post Reply Quote Inge Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 13 Jul 2011 at 2:47pm
	I'm not sure what the context of this sentence is, but I think he means the following: When we complain or gossip about others, we tend to get very animated (loud, gesturing). We put a lot of energy into the activity of gossiping (talking about others behind their back). We want to prove how they are wrong and we are right. It's much harder for us to talk about and be honest about ourselves - so that talk tends to be quieter. Does that make sense? Inge
	Inge Jechart, RLP (925) 963-6439

rlpkaren Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Real Love Coach Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Location: Virgnia USA Online Status: Offline Posts: 708	Post Options Post Reply Quote rlpkaren Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 13 Jul 2011 at 4:50pm
	Inge, that was brilliant! Love you, KarenH
	Learn from your mistakes and recognize that everything in life can be used as a lesson once you are willing to be teachable.

DeathereX Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Group Member Joined: 21 Jun 2011 Location: Norway Online Status: Offline Posts: 29	Post Options Post Reply Quote DeathereX Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 13 Jul 2011 at 7:56pm
	Great ! Thank you Sølve