Various ways of Finding Real Love
Joined: 04 Jul 2007
Location: Hilo, Hawaii
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Topic: Various ways of Finding Real Love
Posted: 15 Dec 2007 at 2:43am
Because I live so far away from mostly everyone on the US Mainland, I have found it necessary to find Real Love in many different ways.
The Book clearly states that any time you meet with someone to talk about the book, the dvd's or the website it can count as a Loving Group.
That's how it's been with me.
We had a Loving Group in Kihei that kinda dissapated.
So I continued to keep in touch with my Real Love Coach, the Sistah who gave me my first set of cd's, got more Pearls from the Sistah who once ran the Group in Kihei and used them!
I've shared my books & dvd's- lent them out really-then sat with those friends to discuss it and made myself available to them for weekly meetings to talk about their use of G & P Behaviors. I've sometimes called them to tell on myself about my uses of G & P behaviors on some occasions, too.
I am still very active in the forum, obviously, and I send everyone I talk to about Real Love to the website, to encourage them to get plugged in. I am an aol member so I share about Real Love in the chatrooms-I created my own chatroom for Real Love sharing also.
I use the Private Messenger feature to tell on myself to any Coach who is on-line at the same time or say Hi to other members & welcome those who are new to the Forum.
I'm also in Recovery, So I use my homegroup as a springboard to share honestly about what's really going on with me inside & out.
Lately, It's been one Real Love appointment at a time.
Sometimes I get to meet with a few ladies at a time, or I meet with someone on a one-to-one basis; as the need arises.
I've even shared Real Love with some on-line friends who by the way should be frequenting our forum from time-to-time.
Guess when you're happy everyone notices and wants to know what it is that you do to keep that eternal smile on your face.
I've also emailed my Real Love Coach, emailed some friends who have moved away, but most of the time I am using the forum.
The newest & most productive thing that I've done is writing out the Pearls and giving out those sheets to friends who are struggling with their use of G & P behaviors; who have experienced so much pain that they'll try anything to experience a different outcome.
I've recently written the Pearls of Real Love out on key-ringed, multi-colored, playing card-sized decks.
It's a fun way to share Real Love as well as have instant topics to discuss. I've made many Real Love appointments on-line, thru aol's chatroom feature and am looking forward to hosting videochats, conference calls & Real Love chatrooms in the future.
I also participate in the conference calls and the weekly videochats so that I am never alone in Real Love. I am practicing becoming a good listener. So I have to practice with others to do that. I believe Gizmo & Skype allows us to do that, cuz only one can speak at a time, otherwise you miss the other person's question/responses, entirely! <experiences that alot> So I'm still learning as I practice the 4 Rules of Seeing.
I am Happier since I found Real Love in the midst of my own pain. I've had no regrets since then and I've made a whole bunch of mistakes along the way. Admitting them made me consciously aware of how much I need to learn from them so that I don't repeat them over & over again.
I've learned so much about myself and the things that I've done to hurt others. The quality of my relationships have gotten better with the ones I have chosen to keep.
It's so nice to know that we have choices, Isn't it?
Anyone else have to find creative ways of keeping the Real Love in their lives flowing? Let me know about it, ok?
~ Sincerely, Robin ~
Edited by RoknRob121 - 18 Sep 2009 at 8:04pm
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