Newbie in a loop

   I seem to be in a bit of a loop.

Heading home I make a commitment to myself to try and see how I can be more loving in the relationship. Then (sometimes) something comes up where I don't feel unconditionally loving towards my partner at a time where I don't have access to others that might provide me with the support I need. (Not to mention the fact that I seem to be having trouble finding those people to begin with...but that's another topic)

What exactly do I do then?

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Weston Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List New Member Joined: 19 Aug 2010 Online Status: Offline Posts: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote Weston Report Post Quote Reply Topic: Newbie in a loop Posted: 20 Aug 2010 at 11:59am
	I seem to be in a bit of a loop. Heading home I make a commitment to myself to try and see how I can be more loving in the relationship. Then (sometimes) something comes up where I don't feel unconditionally loving towards my partner at a time where I don't have access to others that might provide me with the support I need. (Not to mention the fact that I seem to be having trouble finding those people to begin with...but that's another topic) What exactly do I do then?

rlpkaren Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Real Love Coach Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Location: Virgnia USA Online Status: Offline Posts: 708	Post Options Post Reply Quote rlpkaren Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 20 Aug 2010 at 6:29pm
	Hello Weston. Your problem is common and just deciding that you'll be "more loving" by the use of will power doesn't work very well, as you are seeing. I sympathize and I understand and that won't help you at the end of the day. "Sometimes" stuff comes up means that you feel loving when nobody is stealing $2 from you (to quote Greg's book). Get yourself onto the free conference calls, from there get lists of people to contact so you can start telling the truth about your G&Ps to others. Truth - Seen - Accepted - Loved. I'm really sorry to tell you that there's no other way to get to and stay in a loving place. With Real Love, KarenH Certified Real Love Coach