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Pesky View Drop Down
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    Posted: 09 Jun 2010 at 6:38pm
Feeling unloved tonight. Feeling tired of reaching out. Wanting someone to reach out to me instead.   
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Hi Pesky,
I can relate to your feeling unloved.
It's happened to all of us before we found Real Love, as well.
Can't relate to your feelings of 'tired of reaching out' though.
That doesn't make you less lovable or acceptable neither.
I love and accept you-sincerely with all that is within me right now.

Your Happiness can't come to you by osmosis, sister.
Telling the TRUTH about yourself is the only way to bridge the gap.
It calls for connection on your part because unfortunately, none of us are mind-readers and we can't know how or when to love you if at first you don't tell us the unhealthy ways you are keeping yourself imprisoned. ~ I hope that made sense ~

Do you ever tire of breathing? Of course not-it's a necessity to live, right? Well contacting people is the only way to "feel" the love you are needing so that you can make a "loving choice" and feel happy.

Real Love is the necessary "air" that you <us,we> have been needing all your life. The lack of it is the reason for your present condition.

I'm reaching out to you now. Can you feel this in a loving way?
Are you able to let this kind of love heal & fill your soul?
You don't need to give me an answer right now.
Just let this power touch your heart-open up yourself to receiving it.
It's a FREE gift I'm offering to you.

Gifting you with the "secret" of feeling loved, loving & happy.
It takes doing "something" different
which is to tell the TRUTH about the unproductive behaviors
you choose to use, <we call them Getting & Protecting behaviors>
instead of choosing to be loving towards others.
It's hard to give what you don't have, I understand completely.
Sadly, we all opt for the lazy & irresponsible way of doing things
which always brings the same unhappy results.
This cycle can end anytime you want it to ~ your choice ~
You're absolutely loved & accepted right now for being you.

When that time comes for you to lay down the "protecting" behavior,
and make your 10-20 Real Love calls a day to people who can & will love & accept you is entirely up to you, ok?

I give you permission to set new goals and set yourself FREE from the self-made prison that is keeping you unhappy ;)

Sending you lotsa courage to change,
faith to empower you to make wise decisions
and strength to plow thru this fear.

With Love & Beautiful Sunshine,
~ Robin on Maui ~
ph.808-463-6386


Edited by RoknRob121 - 10 Jun 2010 at 3:15pm
~ I'm the one to call when you are ready to tell the TRUTH about it all~ 808-494-1505
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Are you making use of the conference calls on the website? Developing a list of people you can call? It's worth it.
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