Principles of Parenting Pearls

   ~ Aloha Real Love Family, 
I'd like to post these up as a reminder:

Parenting/Leadership
is not complicated:

* Love them
* Teach them
* Have faith
* Occasionally apply consequences

The First Principle of 
Parenting/Leadership:

More than anything else,
my child or whomever
needs to feel loved.

The Second Principle of
Parenting/ Leadership:

When my child or whomever
behaves badly, he or she 
doesn't feel loved.

The Third Principle of
Parenting/ Leadership:

When I'm angry, I'm wrong.

The Fourth Principle of
Parenting/ Leadership:

I can't give what I don't have
I must find Real Love for myself.

The Fifth Principle of
Parenting/ Leadership:

My child or whomever needs
to be loved & taught.

The Sixth Principle of
Parenting/Leadership:

After my child or whomever has
been loved and taught, he
or she must be loved & taught again.

The Seventh Principle of
Parenting/Leadership:

~ The Law of Choice ~

The Eight Principle of
Parenting/Leadership:

~ Happiness comes from being Loving ~

The Ninth Principle of:
Parenting/Leadership:

~ Happiness comes from being Responsible ~

Consequences in 
Parenting/Leadership:

* Never applied in anger
* Goal is to inconvenience & motivate
* Natural (result of choice made)
* Discussed beforehand

I'll be the first to admit that I need these reminders.
I am constantly going through my "Pearls" on a daily basis.
By posting them, I also have them handy here, too.
I need to remember that Unconditional Love flows
downward from the parent to the child-never from the
child to the parent. If your child loves you unconditionally
accept that as a gift and learn what it is that they know
so that you  may become more loving & happier, too.

Parenting is measured  by the love your children feel,
the example you are leaving for them to follow and
pass on as well. Love & teach, then love & teach them again.
~ Sincerely Robin ~

Edited by RoknRob121 - 04 Sep 2008 at 4:23pm

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RoknRob121 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Wise Person Joined: 04 Jul 2007 Location: Hilo, Hawaii Online Status: Offline Posts: 870	Post Options Post Reply Quote RoknRob121 Report Post Quote Reply Topic: Principles of Parenting Pearls Posted: 08 Apr 2008 at 6:01pm
	~ Aloha Real Love Family, I'd like to post these up as a reminder: Parenting/Leadership is not complicated: * Love them * Teach them * Have faith * Occasionally apply consequences The First Principle of Parenting/Leadership: More than anything else, my child or whomever needs to feel loved. The Second Principle of Parenting/ Leadership: When my child or whomever behaves badly, he or she doesn't feel loved. The Third Principle of Parenting/ Leadership: When I'm angry, I'm wrong. The Fourth Principle of Parenting/ Leadership: I can't give what I don't have I must find Real Love for myself. The Fifth Principle of Parenting/ Leadership: My child or whomever needs to be loved & taught. The Sixth Principle of Parenting/Leadership: After my child or whomever has been loved and taught, he or she must be loved & taught again. The Seventh Principle of Parenting/Leadership: ~ The Law of Choice ~ The Eight Principle of Parenting/Leadership: ~ Happiness comes from being Loving ~ The Ninth Principle of: Parenting/Leadership: ~ Happiness comes from being Responsible ~ Consequences in Parenting/Leadership: * Never applied in anger * Goal is to inconvenience & motivate * Natural (result of choice made) * Discussed beforehand I'll be the first to admit that I need these reminders. I am constantly going through my "Pearls" on a daily basis. By posting them, I also have them handy here, too. I need to remember that Unconditional Love flows downward from the parent to the child-never from the child to the parent. If your child loves you unconditionally accept that as a gift and learn what it is that they know so that you may become more loving & happier, too. Parenting is measured by the love your children feel, the example you are leaving for them to follow and pass on as well. Love & teach, then love & teach them again. ~ Sincerely Robin ~ Edited by RoknRob121 - 04 Sep 2008 at 4:23pm
	~ I'm the one to call when you are ready to tell the TRUTH about it all~ 808-494-1505

Learning Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Wise Person Joined: 16 May 2007 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 110	Post Options Post Reply Quote Learning Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 09 Apr 2008 at 9:48pm
	Thank you for reminding us of those great pearls. I also wish that I could always recall them when needed. I is always good to read them as a reminder. In fact I have cut and pasted your efforts into my pc and have put it on my desk top in a file folder that I will try to open every day. It would be great if these were a screen saver. I think i will look into putting them into a screen saver that has enough room for all the pearls. learning

RoknRob121 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Wise Person Joined: 04 Jul 2007 Location: Hilo, Hawaii Online Status: Offline Posts: 870	Post Options Post Reply Quote RoknRob121 Report Post Quote Reply Posted: 10 Apr 2008 at 4:03pm
	Hi Learning, I thank God for Greg's efforts~14 years of it. What an awesome idea ~ Pearls of Real Love Screen Saver ~ Wanna let Home base know that?! Greg, Donna, Mike & Jonathan~Can we please have the Pearls as a Screen Saver?! I believe that's how it starts, one person telling another. Way to Go, Learning~See you on a Conference call or videochat. Sincerely caring about ya, ~ Robin ~ Edited by RoknRob121 - 04 Sep 2008 at 4:24pm
	~ I'm the one to call when you are ready to tell the TRUTH about it all~ 808-494-1505