sex before merriage
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Topic: sex before merriage
Posted: 07 Jul 2012 at 7:43am
i am completely new to the forum and fairly new to reallove concept.
Me and my boyfriend had to go long way to realise what truth meant in relationship and what unconditional love was..but it understanding it didnt make things completely easy for us yet, i guess because we both really lack love in our selves.. however we and especially i am willing to do what is needed to make it happen and have in my life these relationships which are one out of hundred and have this peace in myself and know that my partner has it too.
So recently i start contemplating on sex before marriage subject, and i start believing in it more and more, but i am not sure how to present it to my boyfriend, ..its just this amazing tranquillity that takes me over every time i think about trying to make it happen in our relationship, but i feel like there has to be a condition which is - for us both to be just really loving, i know i can want it from myself, but from him...that is a condition i am asking from him...
All in all i would like to know,or to know where to find more information on sex before marriage and why it is important or not and how is it with this condition that i want to be loved, while loving someone and how does it work.
I ll try to eplain more simple in case you didnt understand me :) but i ll give it a try first and maybe you did:)
Joined: 19 Jun 2009
Location: Bath, England
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|Post Options Quote Reply Posted: 13 Jul 2012 at 2:13am|
Hello there :)
Welcome to the community here.
Sound like you're learning and a great question to ask.
Have you read Greg's book Real Love in Dating? There is a whole chapter on Sex in Dating which would answer your questions.
From me I will say that I understand completely how challenging this this, especially when you've already taken that path within a relationship. Great that you came here and asked for help :)
Whatever you choose to do, know that you are completely loved. As you feel that love you will find it easier to make wise and happy choices whatever they may be for you.
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