Real Love Forums http://www.reallove.com/forums/ This is an XML content feed of; Real Love Forums : Last 10 Posts Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:20:36 +0000 Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:42:29 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 9.08 30 www.reallove.com/forums/RSS_topic_feed.asp Real Love Forums http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_images/forum_header.jpg http://www.reallove.com/forums/ Miscellaneous : ~ Becoming a Real Love Coach ~ http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=113&PID=2899#2899 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: ~ Becoming a Real Love Coach ~
Posted: 28 Jul 2010 at 9:42pm

~ ALOHA Family ~
I have a temporary Contact number
I haven't been able to call out from where
I'm at cuz the reception is weak out here.
I got your messages and would like to be
able to SEE, Accept & Love you.
As long as it is daylight in Hawaii
up until 9pm <3am EST, 2am.CST,1am.MST & 12am.PST>
feel free to use this new number.
 
Lovingly,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
808-966-4141
]]> Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:42:29 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=113&PID=2899#2899 Dating : Engagement Cancelled... Ouch Still http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=629&PID=2898#2898 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: Engagement Cancelled... Ouch Still
Posted: 28 Jul 2010 at 9:32pm

Hi Becca,
Huggles to ya  Hug
There's so many ways you can get the Love you need
while you're recovering from this break-up.
Saturate yourself with all your Real Love educational tools.
 
I watched the FREE On-line Seminar over & over again.
Did the meditation every day.
Made the Conf Calls and talked about my selfishness
and unloving ways that I was clinging.
 
Really, telling the TRUTH about it sets you FREE
from the insanity of repeating those behaviors.
Whether you choose to believe that you're less than loving
sometimes, isn't the focus here.
It's what you can do today to become more loving.
 
TRUTH-telling is the key to "feeling" loved while
you're imperfect & human.
 
We love & accept you even when she can't/won't
Now, what are you willing to do to be loved, loving & responsible?
 
I hope you can SEE past the pain and reach for all the
LOVE that is being offered to you freely.
It really fills you up $20 million dollars full. Wink
 
In peacefulness,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
ph.808-966-4141 <---Temporary contact number


Edited by RoknRob121 - 28 Jul 2010 at 9:35pm]]> Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:32:48 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=629&PID=2898#2898 General : Pearl: Faith that Others Do Their Best http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=650&PID=2897#2897 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: Pearl: Faith that Others Do Their Best
Posted: 28 Jul 2010 at 9:23pm

~Aloha Sistah Karen,
Thank-you for sharing this Pearl with us.
This one in particular has helped me to
SEE things from the other person's perspective
and allow myself to relate to what it must be
like to be on the receiving end of me.
 
It helped me to convey a loving message
more than wanting to control or be right.
Knowing what I was lacking before < Real Love>
I was able to make a better choice and tell the
TRUTH about my selfishness & inconsideration.
 
It set me FREE from continuing in anger & irritation.
Accepting where they are & seeing all they are really
telling me, by their behavior, is that they are NOT feeling
loved in those moments. This gives me the opportunity
to extend love to them as a gift. Awesome concept.
 
Being responsible today,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
808-966-4141 <--- Temporary contact number
 


Edited by RoknRob121 - 28 Jul 2010 at 9:24pm]]> Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:23:42 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=650&PID=2897#2897 General : Pearl: Faith that Others Do Their Best http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=650&PID=2895#2895 Author: rlpkaren
Subject: Pearl: Faith that Others Do Their Best
Posted: 27 Jul 2010 at 10:42am

Pearls & Principles/Coach JoAnne

If we really want something, we have to be intentional about it - we have to pay attention, stay conscious, make a plan to do things differently, and then do it.

Pearl: When I have faith that other people are coping as well as they can with life, I lose my impatience and anger with them.

When we're filled up and feeling loved and loving, we have no reason to chase after Imitation Love and use our Getting and Protecting Behaviors.  So, it makes sense to conclude that anyone who is lying, attacking, acting like a victim, running or clinging is NOT feeling loved or full, and is definitely not happy. This includes us.

We all make mistakes. We all use our GBP's and make choices that inconvenience and harm other people. We do things that are unkind and unloving, often to the people who are most important to us. When we're empty and in fear, we really can't see another way.

We can feel anger and hurt toward others who behave badly, and we can feel guilty or ashamed when we do it ourselves. Neither of these responses helps us feel better, or makes things better.  They just keep us stuck in our unhappiness.

If we make the judgment that other people are coping as well as they can with life, we can get out of that stuck place. If we extend that compassion to ourselves, we can find the courage to make different choices. We can lose our impatience and anger and guilt and shame and begin to move to a much happier place.

It's always about Real Love, and Real Love is always about feeling loved, being loving and being responsible.

]]> Tue, 27 Jul 2010 10:42:17 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=650&PID=2895#2895 Dating : Engagement Cancelled... Ouch Still http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=629&PID=2893#2893 Author: RebeccaE
Subject: Engagement Cancelled... Ouch Still
Posted: 26 Jul 2010 at 5:44pm

This is funny, I just got notified of this post s lil bit ago, but it was sent the 14th. Seems like ages ago, I know it'll hurt longing for her company. I know missing her is about myself, gratefulbthat 've learned that, so I love her by not calling and professing how much I miss her.

I am grateful for you assessment of my ability to be incapable of loving her, but I'm not willing to accept and own that belief about myself. Choosing instead to have faith & trust in myself & my desire to truly unconditionally love her.

You're also right about me wanting her to love me; trust & believe in me & that I do really love & care about her happiness, loving her by leaving her be, & loving her through prayer... and working on myself. great advice, thanks.]]> Mon, 26 Jul 2010 17:44:44 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=629&PID=2893#2893 Marriage : HI I am new to all of this http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=645&PID=2892#2892 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: HI I am new to all of this
Posted: 23 Jul 2010 at 4:29pm

Hi Sparrow,
I bought all of Greg's Books, plus the Essentials of Real Love dvd's.
It helps to have them handy so that you can review them over & over.
 
It's FREE to view Module One under FREE On-line Seminar.
You'll find that you'll be rereading & reviewing all this information
because it's a life-long process and we are not perfect all the time.
Enjoy this experience and the many happy moments it brings your way.
 
Lovingly,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
ph.808-463-6386
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Subject: Starting with myself again
Posted: 22 Jul 2010 at 10:35pm

Awesome Robin!]]> Thu, 22 Jul 2010 22:35:58 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=19&PID=2890#2890 Marriage : HI I am new to all of this http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=645&PID=2889#2889 Author: sparrow
Subject: HI I am new to all of this
Posted: 22 Jul 2010 at 8:11pm

thank you all  for the time and concern you have shown. I understand what you are saying ,I was going to buy the book that you mentined and was thinking of getting the dvds to do you think they would help me . I want to learn as soon as posible. and to feel like myself again tom .]]> Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:11:03 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=645&PID=2889#2889 Dating : Starting with myself again http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=19&PID=2888#2888 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: Starting with myself again
Posted: 22 Jul 2010 at 7:27pm

~ ALOHA Family ~
 
It's become apparent to me that my presence is needed
more on the Big Island of Hawaii than on Maui.
 
With all this NEW Family Connections opening up for me
I have found that Yes, time heals all wounds and all
my relationships are NEW today because I am NEW
I'm experiencing another SUPER WOWAGE Moment.
I may have to change my Business Name to Loving Solutions Hawaii
so that it reflects the whole State and not just an island.
 
Happily being of service in the 808 State,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
oh.808-463-6386


Edited by RoknRob121 - 22 Jul 2010 at 7:28pm]]> Thu, 22 Jul 2010 19:27:57 +0000 http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=19&PID=2888#2888 Marriage : HI I am new to all of this http://www.reallove.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=645&PID=2887#2887 Author: RoknRob121
Subject: HI I am new to all of this
Posted: 22 Jul 2010 at 7:15pm

Hi sparrow,
Welcome to you!
 
It may help you to understand why conflicts occur in the first place.
Most people don't want to admit that they can be selfish, unloving,
inconsiderate & irresponsible at some times in between trying to learn
how to love their partner & care about their happiness.
 
If you're anything like me, you were never taught how
and she also may not have had this kind of instruction neither.
 
This is a good starting place to begin your Real Love education.
Please consider joining us on the Conf Calls as well as read
all the information on the Home Page & watch the videoclips.
All this information is FREE and when you both agree to
this Real Love education, decide to attend meetings in your area.
You may have to start one IF there isn't one already.
~ Absolutely your choice ~
 
I believe your happiness is worth it your marriage is also.
 
I hope to meet you & your wife one day
at one of Greg's Seminars. Until then,
know you're loved & accepted just as you are.
 
Love & Blessings,
~ Robin in Hawaii ~
808-463-6386
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